Nonmonogamy

Episode 44 - The Artist's Farewell Encore

Kay's favorite single male, "The Artist" returns to DC for one more MFM before we move across the country.  This time we have a pre-play discussion to include our mutual fantasies and decide that he and Kay will play alone initially before I come in to join them. 

We discuss the lead-up, the nerves involved and those sweet moments of torture Jay endured while waiting for over an hour to join in the fun.  (He has a voyeur moment and could hear her moaning from outside the apartment!)

The story turns erotic with talk of anal play, double penetration, cock ring fails, sixty-nine and double cumshot facials. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder Podcast

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Episode 41 - The MFM Artist and the Crush

Our artist friend returns to DC for a second MFM and Kay considers trying her first DP. We meet up with new friends in Nashville and have an incredible weekend together, sharing one of our sexiest stories to date. We tour the Jack Daniels distillery, plug Steak & Tequila’s snapchat, talk about the Lovense Lush 2, Kay’s corner and more!

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

Swinging Downunder - Podcast

Steak & Tequila - Pocast

Normalizing Nonmonogamy - Podcast

Lovense Lush 2 - Remote control vibrator

Episode 40 - Traveling, Parenting & Flogging

In this episode we recap a vanilla-ish trip that we took to Peru with some of our closest lifestyle friends.  We had an amazing trip filled with adventure, fine dining and even a night of rooftop blowjobs.

We share the story of a sexy night with Rob & Lala, a hot couple who we had a fantastic night with who will also be joining us and the PlayGrnd crew at Temptation resorts Feb 15-18th. 

We cover our approach to parenting while participating in the lifestyle.  We've received many emails about the topic and wanted to share our personal approach and thoughts on the subject. 

We share some emails on Kay's Corner and tell you about some sexy upcoming events.  Tune in!

Mentioned in this episode:

PlayGrnd parties - Twitter: @playgrnd_party

Astrid & Gaston Restaurant

Ayahausca Restobar - Lima, Peru

Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast

Swinging Downunder

Sweet Tea & Whiskey

Lotus Blooms - Alexandria, VA sex boutique

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

 

Episode 39 - Separate Country Play

We share the details of a recent trip to Europe for Jay where he met a couple for some hotwife and MFM fun in Austria.  Meanwhile, Kay had a pair of successful single male dates and met one for hotwife play.  We discuss our feelings surrounding separate play and start to explore how we arrived at this place in the lifestyle.  Kay shares her feelings of envy after Jay purchases a lingerie gift for Anna.  

Mentioned:

Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast

Palmers Lingerie

Krampus

Episode 38 - Sophia and Dick

Our dear friend Sophia, the intro voice to our podcast, is back and her life has changed so much in the last two years.  She has a new man, Dick and they have been exploring the boundaries of non-monogamy together.  They've had threesomes with men and women and there's more to come.  To fully appreciate the transformation, be sure to listen to:

Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions!

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing - Episode 29: Lifestyle Rules and Boundaries

The Kinsey Scale

 

Episode 37 - Podcast-a-Palooza

We join our fellow podcasters Swinging Downunder with C&D, Spiritual Swingers with Adam & Even and lifestyle bloggers Kate & Mike from Monogamish Marriage for a fun-filled sexy weekend in NYC with our amazing listeners and readers who attended the event. 

What a weekend!  We had our first FFM, gave a presentation, met the sexiest listeners, attended an after party and finally had a podcaster/blogger orgy at the after after party.  So many sexy details in this episode that you won't want to miss. 

Featured in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Spiritual Swingers

Monogamish Marriage

Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Episode 20 - The Monogamish Marriage

Red Hot Pie

Episode 36 - Swingchella and the Anal Queen

We attend a PLAYGRND house party together for the first time and what a blast!  The hosts outdid themselves with a sexy guest list, nuru massages, hot tub, hookah, fire pits, photo booths and play areas.

Later we have a separate date with our friends Chris and Vanessa and she surprises everyone with her desire, and ability, to have DP. 

Kays corner, upcoming events and more!

Mentioned in this episode:

PLAYGRND parties

Swinging Downunder

Spiritual Swingers

Monogamish Marriage

We Gotta Thing

Episode 35 - The Surprise Hall Pass

Kay surprises Jay with a surprise hall pass while she's away on vacation, allowing him to be an "extra dick" for a birthday girl whom she's never met and to participate in an MFM threesome with our friends Nate & Liv.

We catch you up on our summer spent mostly apart and discuss boundary flexibility, counseling, future plans and more. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Nate & Liv

Average Swingers

Spiritual Swingers

Esther Perel

TooTimid - Remote Petite Panty Teaser

Monogamy Disrupted

Episode 34 - Single Male Fails & Soft Swap Success

At first thought, finding a single male to play with seems like it would be easy to do yet we've encountered some challenges recently and Kay was stood up (twice!) while trying to dip her toes back into the hotwife waters. 

We get voicemails galore as Adam & Eve from Spiritual Swingers unwind post-Desire and C from Swinging Downunder reminisces about our first meeting at NiN two years ago.  Speaking of NiN, Jay & Angie from Average Swingers and C from SDU play a little prank on us using our voicemail for callers. 

We review sex toys from TooTimid.com where you can save 20% off your entire order by using our code "Redlight" at checkout. 

Kay enjoys anal sex, enough said.  Jay discusses the joys of the male double orgasm and we share some details about a sexy date that we had with some friends after our first date was cut short due to illness. 

We finish up with Kay's Corner and tell you what's coming up for us. 

Episode 33 - Guest Episode - Newbies Explore Desire Pearl

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Meet the Tanners.  They are our guest podcasters on this episode and although they are brand new to the Lifestyle, they courageously decided to plunge right in to the sexy waters of Desire Pearl and explore and define their sexual boundaries together. 

This episode is geared towards those that are thinking about booking a trip to a clothing optional resort such as Desire Pearl but may not define themselves as swingers or as "being in the lifestyle".  Though, like the Tanners, you may change your mind as to how you think you fit in once you are immersed in such a sexy setting. 

This is their story and their experience.  If you would like to contact them with questions or comments they can be reached at 214everyday@gmail.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Desire Pearl

Episode 32 - Culinary Delight

We tell you about a cooking class date we had with a lovely couple  that was complicated by illness yet still managed to be sexy.  We caught up with Mr. & Mrs. Jones from @WeGottaThing and met Adam & Eve from @SpiritualSwing before Jay makes amends for interrupting Kay during a sexy description on the last episode.  Finally we wind up with the tale of a sexy photo shoot before closing with Kay's corner. 

Mentioned:

We Gotta Thing - Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Spiritual Swingers - Adam & Eve

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Scott Davis Photography

Episode 31 - The Action Packed Episode

Jay & Kay catch you up on their busy spring and hang out with C from Swinging Downunder along with Nate & Liv.  We attend a Gin Dig and meet some sexy listeners from California.  We attend Liv's birthday in DC and end up at a hooka bar.  Kay's Corner catches listeners up on their questions.  We ran a half marathon with We Gotta Thing and discuss that as well as tackle criticism from the email inbox.

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing

Swinging Downunder

Nate & Liv

Casey Donatello - In Bed With Strangers

Spiritual Swingers

Episode 29 - Desire Riviera Maya

We finally make it to Desire and it's the adventure that we hoped it would be.  The weather was perfect and so were the friends that we made.  We talk you through our days and nights from poolside to the disco and hot tub as well as a catamaran trip we took that ended in a day excursion to Desire Pearl. 

Of course there's sex!  We fill you in our own connections and the difficulty we had staying connected during a play session.  We end with our first parallel play session and discuss all the feels that went along with this trip.  It's a long one, so buckle up and enjoy the ride.