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Episode 33 - Guest Episode - Newbies Explore Desire Pearl

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Meet the Tanners.  They are our guest podcasters on this episode and although they are brand new to the Lifestyle, they courageously decided to plunge right in to the sexy waters of Desire Pearl and explore and define their sexual boundaries together. 

This episode is geared towards those that are thinking about booking a trip to a clothing optional resort such as Desire Pearl but may not define themselves as swingers or as "being in the lifestyle".  Though, like the Tanners, you may change your mind as to how you think you fit in once you are immersed in such a sexy setting. 

This is their story and their experience.  If you would like to contact them with questions or comments they can be reached at 214everyday@gmail.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Desire Pearl

Episode 30 - First MFM and PLAYGRND house party

We catch you up on the past month or so of our lives and tell you how we came to have our first MFM, a wildly successful and sexy evening out where we found that reality can sometimes be just as good as fantasy.  By unpredictable means, Jay goes alone to a house party hosted by the PLAYGRND crew in the DC area and has a note from home allowing him to get a blowjob.  We discuss that, the aftermath and more.  Kay's corner answers the questions, "How do I bring up the lifestyle without making my partner feel inadequate" and "How do I prepare my lady bits for the sun and fun in Desire"?

Mentioned in this episode:

PLAYGRND party - Twitter

Rachel Krantz - Twitter

Swinging DownUnder - Podcast

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

The Curious Couple - Podcast

Swinger Diaries - Podcast

HUMP! film festival

Episode 25 - Stunt Cock

This is part one of a two part series where we each play separately.  In this episode, Jay spends time alone with a Texas couple and we discuss everything related to the events leading up to that night, the emotions involved and yes, even the sexy play. 

But first we spend a little time talking about catching up with local friends. We ran a terrain race with a group of sexy lifestylers followed by a booty brunch 6-some where I commit a towel-foul.  We also caught up with our friends from We Gotta Thing for a pants-on race and spent an afternoon eating crabs with the Italian Couple. 

Episode 23 - Playtime Passions May Vary

Flirting with another person in front of your spouse can be challenging for some people and comes easily to others.  Jay & Kay discuss some of the issues involved with expressing desire towards another while simultaneously reassuring your partner that different doesn't equal better. 

We then discuss a second date in which one of us had a stronger physical connection in bed with a couple during a full swap and how we could try to improve our communication in real time for future encounters. 

We transition to Kay's corner where we discuss three questions from listeners before discussing Kay's first solo appearance at a house party and Jay's reaction to it. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Clit-sucking vibrator - Melrose Electric Suck Massager

We aren't who you think we are - Blog by We Gotta Thing

Perly's in Richmond

Swinger Diaries

Episode 22 - Average Swingers Next Door

Kay & Jay spend some time in San Antonio, TX and they drive up to Austin to catch up with Jay & Angie from Average Swingers.  The four of us have a night out in Austin on 6th Street and then hit Lake Travis the following day for an amazing event, Butts, Boobs and Boats XII.  We team up for a joint podcast and have some laughs. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Two or More to Tango

Swap Fu

Holli & Michael

We Gotta Thing

Episode 21 - Sexy Talk & Transitions

We discuss upcoming events, a hot date night with our friends Nick & Cleo and respond to listener emails.  We unveil our new Kay's Corner jingle and recommend another sexy lifestyle podcast to listen to.

Mentioned in this podcast (In order of mention).

Average Swingers with Jay & Angie

Boobs, Butts and Boats - Austin, TX 21-22 July

The Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Swinger Diaries with Penn & Paige

Swinging Down Under with C & D

Real Talk Between The Sheets with Jake & Sophia

Episode 14 - The Halloween Party

We attend our first lifestyle Halloween party and had an amazing time with 15 other couples.  The hosts created a very sexy atmosphere and everyone was in costume (well, until they were naked).  Things get hot quickly and there is sex everywhere you look.  Kay gets her first DVP and we discuss a surprise visit from that notorious emotion, jealousy. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

The Game of Lifestyle

Episode 12 - Hotel for Eight

We accept a last-minute invitation for drinks and more on a weekend night and end up sharing a hotel room with three other couples.  A sexy atmosphere leads to touching, kissing and finally to some hot moments for all involved. 

Kay calls me out for withholding some information and we discuss why it was wrong, how it made her feel and how we moved on. 

Finally, we took a tip from another podcast (Swinging DownUnder) and started "Freaky Fridays" a couple times each month where we explore each other and experiment with new things in the bedroom.

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Swinging DownUnder with C & D

Episode 2 - From Zero to Full Swap

We go on a date to meet another couple that reached out to us and end up throwing all “rules” to the side and plunging headfirst into a full swap.  There is a rookie mistake of too much liquid courage and Kay ends up needing a Home Depot bucket.  We discuss our feelings leading up to, during and after the encounter as well as some real talk about how we could have done things better.

Preparing to podcast

We have taken the plunge and decided to podcast so we can share our adventures in the lifestyle.  We probably wouldn't be in in the lifestyle at all if it wasn't for the guidance of podcasters like The Curious Couple and The Swinger Diaries.  We are thankful for the guidance that they offered on their shows and loved being an audience member to their adventures. 

That said, despite all the good advice that we had, we basically blundered our way into our first dates and have had some funny and sexy stories to share.  We hope that you'll enjoy them as we take a light-hearted approach to podcasting and enjoying the lifestyle. 

We have created a Twitter account, set up a website and domain and are now preparing to establish our podcast.  We can't wait to get started!