Swapping

Episode 40 - Traveling, Parenting & Flogging

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In this episode we recap a vanilla-ish trip that we took to Peru with some of our closest lifestyle friends.  We had an amazing trip filled with adventure, fine dining and even a night of rooftop blowjobs.

We share the story of a sexy night with Rob & Lala, a hot couple who we had a fantastic night with who will also be joining us and the PlayGrnd crew at Temptation resorts Feb 15-18th. 

We cover our approach to parenting while participating in the lifestyle.  We've received many emails about the topic and wanted to share our personal approach and thoughts on the subject. 

We share some emails on Kay's Corner and tell you about some sexy upcoming events.  Tune in!

Mentioned in this episode:

PlayGrnd parties - Twitter: @playgrnd_party

Astrid & Gaston Restaurant

Ayahausca Restobar - Lima, Peru

Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast

Swinging Downunder

Sweet Tea & Whiskey

Lotus Blooms - Alexandria, VA sex boutique

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

 

Episode 36 - Swingchella and the Anal Queen

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We attend a PLAYGRND house party together for the first time and what a blast!  The hosts outdid themselves with a sexy guest list, nuru massages, hot tub, hookah, fire pits, photo booths and play areas.

Later we have a separate date with our friends Chris and Vanessa and she surprises everyone with her desire, and ability, to have DP. 

Kays corner, upcoming events and more!

Mentioned in this episode:

PLAYGRND parties

Swinging Downunder

Spiritual Swingers

Monogamish Marriage

We Gotta Thing

Episode 31 - The Action Packed Episode

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Jay & Kay catch you up on their busy spring and hang out with C from Swinging Downunder along with Nate & Liv.  We attend a Gin Dig and meet some sexy listeners from California.  We attend Liv's birthday in DC and end up at a hooka bar.  Kay's Corner catches listeners up on their questions.  We ran a half marathon with We Gotta Thing and discuss that as well as tackle criticism from the email inbox.

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing

Swinging Downunder

Nate & Liv

Casey Donatello - In Bed With Strangers

Spiritual Swingers

Episode 27 - Holiday Spice

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We begin with our Halloween night out and briefly discuss seeing our local friends before heading back to a hotel room for a night of sex with our friends Nick and Cleo, better known as "The Italian Couple". 

We also discuss having great nights out with lifestyle friends sans sex, just enjoying the company of wonderful people when we attend a concert and go to a White Elephant party with LS folks. 

We catch you up on our single guy situation and discuss some feelings that arise surrounding that topic.

Finally, Kay leaves you with a special holiday edition of "Kay's Corner" in which she tells an erotic story from back in her college days

Mentioned in this podcast.

Swinging Down Under

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Episode 25 - Stunt Cock

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This is part one of a two part series where we each play separately.  In this episode, Jay spends time alone with a Texas couple and we discuss everything related to the events leading up to that night, the emotions involved and yes, even the sexy play. 

But first we spend a little time talking about catching up with local friends. We ran a terrain race with a group of sexy lifestylers followed by a booty brunch 6-some where I commit a towel-foul.  We also caught up with our friends from We Gotta Thing for a pants-on race and spent an afternoon eating crabs with the Italian Couple. 

Episode 24B - Nate & Liv Return to Japan

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We continue our hangout with Nate & Liv and as the whiskey settles in, they tell us the story of their most recent trip to Japan.  They discuss some sexy BDSM-style hotel rooms (see the image for Episode 24A) and Nate revisits his old sex dojo for some solo fun!  We talk about exploring solo play and the conversations that occur behind close doors leading up to that point.

Mentioned in this episode:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Episode 24A - Swinging in Japan with Nate & Liv

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We have the pleasure of spending an evening with Nate & Liv after their return from a second Japanese vacation.  They share their whiskey collection and tell us their tales of what it's like to be an American breaking into the Japanese swinging scene.  This is a two part series where they tell last years story (a repeat podcast that we failed to capture during the first telling) and then, in part B, the most recent trip. 

Mentioned in this Podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Tokyo Adult Guide

Tokyo Happening Club: Bliss Out

Episode 23 - Playtime Passions May Vary

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Flirting with another person in front of your spouse can be challenging for some people and comes easily to others.  Jay & Kay discuss some of the issues involved with expressing desire towards another while simultaneously reassuring your partner that different doesn't equal better. 

We then discuss a second date in which one of us had a stronger physical connection in bed with a couple during a full swap and how we could try to improve our communication in real time for future encounters. 

We transition to Kay's corner where we discuss three questions from listeners before discussing Kay's first solo appearance at a house party and Jay's reaction to it. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Clit-sucking vibrator - Melrose Electric Suck Massager

We aren't who you think we are - Blog by We Gotta Thing

Perly's in Richmond

Swinger Diaries

Episode 19 - Pajamas and DP Lesbians

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We were invited to a onesie-themed pajama party where we were going to play board games/card games and maybe watch some Netflix and chill but we brought a game of our own that somehow led to a wild and unpredictable Saturday night where "chill" turned into DP sex with a lesbian couple.  We also have the first in our series of listener "car ride home" stories at the end of the podcast and linked here below. 

A couple from Miami shares their car ride home story here.  She was so wet...

Mentioned in this podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 @Twitter

Episode 18 - Cleo's Sexy Santa Sicilian Celebration

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We veer from our usual podcast format and have our Italian friends over for a vanilla hangout night and discuss the hotel party that we had for Cleo's birthday which occurred just before Christmas.  There was a Christmas theme and hot little elves, legs wrapped in candy cane stockings and sexy Santa's were omnipresent.  We also discuss private Facebook groups and our introduction to them through Nick and Cleo. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 16 - Italian Night at the House Party

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After months of messaging and trying to line up dates, we were finally able to meet this fun Italian couple at a nearby house party.  We describe the layout of the house, Kay rides her first sybian and we have a discussion about risking rejection in order to put yourself out there when it comes time to move to the playroom.

Mentioned in this episode;

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 14 - The Halloween Party

We attend our first lifestyle Halloween party and had an amazing time with 15 other couples.  The hosts created a very sexy atmosphere and everyone was in costume (well, until they were naked).  Things get hot quickly and there is sex everywhere you look.  Kay gets her first DVP and we discuss a surprise visit from that notorious emotion, jealousy. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

The Game of Lifestyle

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Episode 13 - Erection Problems - Co-podcast with We Gotta Thing

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Over the last few months, we've had the pleasure of becoming friends with Mr. and Mrs. Jones, hosts of the very popular lifestyle podcast "We Gotta Thing".  The last time we hung out, there was an embarrassing issue that we wanted to talk about.  In the heat of the moment I (Jay) was unable to maintain an erection.  Obviously this troubled me and I was ashamed not only in the moment, but for days afterward when I would think back to that night.  Struggling with my emotions, I discussed it with Kay and finally we reached out to the Jones' and decided to co-podcast on the issue so we could discuss not only my feelings, but how it affected all involved.

Mentioned in this podcast:

"We Gotta Thing" with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

"Massachusetts Male Aging Study" Am. J. Epidemiol. (2000) 152 (6): 533-541.

"Things that can deflate your erection" WebMD

Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions!

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A few months after we entered the lifestyle we came out to our good friend Sophia and even let her know that we had started a podcast.  You may recognize her as the intro/extro voice to our podcast.  She was curious about what it meant to be a swinger and wrote some questions to surprise us with on our podcast.

Sophia has been our good friend for years.  We share many details of our lives, some intimate, and it was natural to let her know that we had joined the lifestyle, although we were still nervous to tell her initially.  She asks questions about swinging and then talks about her own relationship.

Mentioned in this podcast: The Average Swingers with Jay & Angie; Swinger Diaries with Penn & Paige

Episode 8 - Cybersex and Our First Time Hosting

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We were hesitant to meet a couple based off of their profile but wow, we're glad we did!  We had a great dinner with a sexy duo followed by some hot video phone sex that night and a few weeks later we hosted them at our house on the night before leaving for Naughty in N'awlins.  We made new friends and had some great sex!

Episode 7 - She Kissed A Girl and She Liked It

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Meet Nate & Liv, a couple that knew we had a podcast who immediately hit it off with us.  We had a great night of dinner, talking, drinks and dive-bar delving.  A week or so later, we were back at their place where they had reversed the red-light treatment on us and we had some very hot sex and took some amazing photos. Little did we know it would be the start of a great friendship.

Episode 5 - Separate Rooms and Dates Gone Wrong

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We head out on a couple of dates to meet people and red flags go up everywhere, dating couples can be hard!  We did have success meeting a new couple though and we talk about that sexy encounter where we couldn’t physically see each other for the first time during play. It was arousing and brought up all kinds of new discussions among us.