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Episode 44 - The Artist's Farewell Encore

Kay's favorite single male, "The Artist" returns to DC for one more MFM before we move across the country.  This time we have a pre-play discussion to include our mutual fantasies and decide that he and Kay will play alone initially before I come in to join them. 

We discuss the lead-up, the nerves involved and those sweet moments of torture Jay endured while waiting for over an hour to join in the fun.  (He has a voyeur moment and could hear her moaning from outside the apartment!)

The story turns erotic with talk of anal play, double penetration, cock ring fails, sixty-nine and double cumshot facials. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder Podcast

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Episode 41 - The MFM Artist and the Crush

Our artist friend returns to DC for a second MFM and Kay considers trying her first DP. We meet up with new friends in Nashville and have an incredible weekend together, sharing one of our sexiest stories to date. We tour the Jack Daniels distillery, plug Steak & Tequila’s snapchat, talk about the Lovense Lush 2, Kay’s corner and more!

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

Swinging Downunder - Podcast

Steak & Tequila - Pocast

Normalizing Nonmonogamy - Podcast

Lovense Lush 2 - Remote control vibrator

Episode 40 - Traveling, Parenting & Flogging

In this episode we recap a vanilla-ish trip that we took to Peru with some of our closest lifestyle friends.  We had an amazing trip filled with adventure, fine dining and even a night of rooftop blowjobs.

We share the story of a sexy night with Rob & Lala, a hot couple who we had a fantastic night with who will also be joining us and the PlayGrnd crew at Temptation resorts Feb 15-18th. 

We cover our approach to parenting while participating in the lifestyle.  We've received many emails about the topic and wanted to share our personal approach and thoughts on the subject. 

We share some emails on Kay's Corner and tell you about some sexy upcoming events.  Tune in!

Mentioned in this episode:

PlayGrnd parties - Twitter: @playgrnd_party

Astrid & Gaston Restaurant

Ayahausca Restobar - Lima, Peru

Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast

Swinging Downunder

Sweet Tea & Whiskey

Lotus Blooms - Alexandria, VA sex boutique

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

 

Episode 39 - Separate Country Play

We share the details of a recent trip to Europe for Jay where he met a couple for some hotwife and MFM fun in Austria.  Meanwhile, Kay had a pair of successful single male dates and met one for hotwife play.  We discuss our feelings surrounding separate play and start to explore how we arrived at this place in the lifestyle.  Kay shares her feelings of envy after Jay purchases a lingerie gift for Anna.  

Mentioned:

Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast

Palmers Lingerie

Krampus

Episode 32 - Culinary Delight

We tell you about a cooking class date we had with a lovely couple  that was complicated by illness yet still managed to be sexy.  We caught up with Mr. & Mrs. Jones from @WeGottaThing and met Adam & Eve from @SpiritualSwing before Jay makes amends for interrupting Kay during a sexy description on the last episode.  Finally we wind up with the tale of a sexy photo shoot before closing with Kay's corner. 

Mentioned:

We Gotta Thing - Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Spiritual Swingers - Adam & Eve

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Scott Davis Photography

Episode 30 - First MFM and PLAYGRND house party

We catch you up on the past month or so of our lives and tell you how we came to have our first MFM, a wildly successful and sexy evening out where we found that reality can sometimes be just as good as fantasy.  By unpredictable means, Jay goes alone to a house party hosted by the PLAYGRND crew in the DC area and has a note from home allowing him to get a blowjob.  We discuss that, the aftermath and more.  Kay's corner answers the questions, "How do I bring up the lifestyle without making my partner feel inadequate" and "How do I prepare my lady bits for the sun and fun in Desire"?

Mentioned in this episode:

PLAYGRND party - Twitter

Rachel Krantz - Twitter

Swinging DownUnder - Podcast

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

The Curious Couple - Podcast

Swinger Diaries - Podcast

HUMP! film festival

Episode 27 - Holiday Spice

We begin with our Halloween night out and briefly discuss seeing our local friends before heading back to a hotel room for a night of sex with our friends Nick and Cleo, better known as "The Italian Couple". 

We also discuss having great nights out with lifestyle friends sans sex, just enjoying the company of wonderful people when we attend a concert and go to a White Elephant party with LS folks. 

We catch you up on our single guy situation and discuss some feelings that arise surrounding that topic.

Finally, Kay leaves you with a special holiday edition of "Kay's Corner" in which she tells an erotic story from back in her college days

Mentioned in this podcast.

Swinging Down Under

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Episode 23 - Playtime Passions May Vary

Flirting with another person in front of your spouse can be challenging for some people and comes easily to others.  Jay & Kay discuss some of the issues involved with expressing desire towards another while simultaneously reassuring your partner that different doesn't equal better. 

We then discuss a second date in which one of us had a stronger physical connection in bed with a couple during a full swap and how we could try to improve our communication in real time for future encounters. 

We transition to Kay's corner where we discuss three questions from listeners before discussing Kay's first solo appearance at a house party and Jay's reaction to it. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Clit-sucking vibrator - Melrose Electric Suck Massager

We aren't who you think we are - Blog by We Gotta Thing

Perly's in Richmond

Swinger Diaries

Episode 20 - HUMP! fest and Irish BJs

We're back and we discuss our experience with tiptoeing into the single male waters, from encountering a married male to a dom.  We tell you about the great podcast we recorded last month and an eye-opening night out to view homemade porn at Dan Savage's HUMP! fest.  We raise the veil for a peek into our vanilla life and tell you about our recent vacation to Ireland and how to turn a regular castle tour into a dungeon blowjob.  Finally, we are saddened to share the news of Mr. And Mrs. Jones at We Gotta Thing who were recently outed and ask you to reach out in support of them. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Mr. & Mrs. Jones - We Gotta Thing

Dan Savage - Hump! film festival

Blarney Castle, Ireland

moist

Episode 19 - Pajamas and DP Lesbians

We were invited to a onesie-themed pajama party where we were going to play board games/card games and maybe watch some Netflix and chill but we brought a game of our own that somehow led to a wild and unpredictable Saturday night where "chill" turned into DP sex with a lesbian couple.  We also have the first in our series of listener "car ride home" stories at the end of the podcast and linked here below. 

A couple from Miami shares their car ride home story here.  She was so wet...

Mentioned in this podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 @Twitter

Episode 18 - Cleo's Sexy Santa Sicilian Celebration

We veer from our usual podcast format and have our Italian friends over for a vanilla hangout night and discuss the hotel party that we had for Cleo's birthday which occurred just before Christmas.  There was a Christmas theme and hot little elves, legs wrapped in candy cane stockings and sexy Santa's were omnipresent.  We also discuss private Facebook groups and our introduction to them through Nick and Cleo. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 17 - They Gotta House Party

In this episode we attend a sexy house party hosted by our friends Mr. and Mrs. Jones.  Kay is limited by health issues but still shows up to have fun.  We enjoy spending time with old friends and meet some new ones.  We answer a couple listener emails and request that you send us your "car ride home" stories for an upcoming podcast. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing podcast with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

Swinger Diaries podcast with Penn and Paige

The Curious Couple podcast with T&A

Episode 16 - Italian Night at the House Party

After months of messaging and trying to line up dates, we were finally able to meet this fun Italian couple at a nearby house party.  We describe the layout of the house, Kay rides her first sybian and we have a discussion about risking rejection in order to put yourself out there when it comes time to move to the playroom.

Mentioned in this episode;

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 15 - Kay's 40th Birthday Party

Nearly five months in the making, Kay has a surprise 40th birthday and one year swing-a-versary celebration with some great sexy friends that we have made during our journey.  We have a special guest appearance from the folks that got us started in the lifestyle and everything comes together for a wonderful, fun, intimate evening. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinger Diaries with Penn and Paige

We Gotta Thing with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

Sax Restaurant in Washington DC

Episode 13 - Erection Problems - Co-podcast with We Gotta Thing

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Over the last few months, we've had the pleasure of becoming friends with Mr. and Mrs. Jones, hosts of the very popular lifestyle podcast "We Gotta Thing".  The last time we hung out, there was an embarrassing issue that we wanted to talk about.  In the heat of the moment I (Jay) was unable to maintain an erection.  Obviously this troubled me and I was ashamed not only in the moment, but for days afterward when I would think back to that night.  Struggling with my emotions, I discussed it with Kay and finally we reached out to the Jones' and decided to co-podcast on the issue so we could discuss not only my feelings, but how it affected all involved.

Mentioned in this podcast:

"We Gotta Thing" with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

"Massachusetts Male Aging Study" Am. J. Epidemiol. (2000) 152 (6): 533-541.

"Things that can deflate your erection" WebMD

Episode 12 - Hotel for Eight

We accept a last-minute invitation for drinks and more on a weekend night and end up sharing a hotel room with three other couples.  A sexy atmosphere leads to touching, kissing and finally to some hot moments for all involved. 

Kay calls me out for withholding some information and we discuss why it was wrong, how it made her feel and how we moved on. 

Finally, we took a tip from another podcast (Swinging DownUnder) and started "Freaky Fridays" a couple times each month where we explore each other and experiment with new things in the bedroom.

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Swinging DownUnder with C & D

Episode 11 - The Beach House

We discuss our struggle with the idea of bringing our kids along to a beach house when we were invited by some lifestyle friends.  We meet a new couple who are happy to answer our questions about polyamory.  Finally, we have a guest podcast session where we invite our friends to discuss their sexy encounter with us from their point of view. 

Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions!

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A few months after we entered the lifestyle we came out to our good friend Sophia and even let her know that we had started a podcast.  You may recognize her as the intro/extro voice to our podcast.  She was curious about what it meant to be a swinger and wrote some questions to surprise us with on our podcast.

Sophia has been our good friend for years.  We share many details of our lives, some intimate, and it was natural to let her know that we had joined the lifestyle, although we were still nervous to tell her initially.  She asks questions about swinging and then talks about her own relationship.

Mentioned in this podcast: The Average Swingers with Jay & Angie; Swinger Diaries with Penn & Paige

Episode 7 - She Kissed A Girl and She Liked It

Meet Nate & Liv, a couple that knew we had a podcast who immediately hit it off with us.  We had a great night of dinner, talking, drinks and dive-bar delving.  A week or so later, we were back at their place where they had reversed the red-light treatment on us and we had some very hot sex and took some amazing photos. Little did we know it would be the start of a great friendship.

Episode 6 - #PornoSunday

We meet a couple and have the best time getting to know them...in fact, it was such a good time that Kay had another bucket moment that cut our date short.  They invite us back to try again and we join them for brunch at their home as they introduce us to their sexy tradition of #pornosunday.  Leigh and Mike join us on our podcast to talk about it and mimosas and hot sex leave everyone happy!