Episode 38 - Sophia and Dick

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Our dear friend Sophia, the intro voice to our podcast, is back and her life has changed so much in the last two years.  She has a new man, Dick and they have been exploring the boundaries of non-monogamy together.  They've had threesomes with men and women and there's more to come.  To fully appreciate the transformation, be sure to listen to:

Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions!

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing - Episode 29: Lifestyle Rules and Boundaries

The Kinsey Scale

 

Episode 37 - Podcast-a-Palooza

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We join our fellow podcasters Swinging Downunder with C&D, Spiritual Swingers with Adam & Even and lifestyle bloggers Kate & Mike from Monogamish Marriage for a fun-filled sexy weekend in NYC with our amazing listeners and readers who attended the event. 

What a weekend!  We had our first FFM, gave a presentation, met the sexiest listeners, attended an after party and finally had a podcaster/blogger orgy at the after after party.  So many sexy details in this episode that you won't want to miss. 

Featured in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Spiritual Swingers

Monogamish Marriage

Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Episode 20 - The Monogamish Marriage

Red Hot Pie

Episode 36 - Swingchella and the Anal Queen

We attend a PLAYGRND house party together for the first time and what a blast!  The hosts outdid themselves with a sexy guest list, nuru massages, hot tub, hookah, fire pits, photo booths and play areas.

Later we have a separate date with our friends Chris and Vanessa and she surprises everyone with her desire, and ability, to have DP. 

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Kays corner, upcoming events and more!

Mentioned in this episode:

PLAYGRND parties

Swinging Downunder

Spiritual Swingers

Monogamish Marriage

We Gotta Thing

Episode 35 - The Surprise Hall Pass

Kay surprises Jay with a surprise hall pass while she's away on vacation, allowing him to be an "extra dick" for a birthday girl whom she's never met and to participate in an MFM threesome with our friends Nate & Liv.

We catch you up on our summer spent mostly apart and discuss boundary flexibility, counseling, future plans and more. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Nate & Liv

Average Swingers

Spiritual Swingers

Esther Perel

TooTimid - Remote Petite Panty Teaser

Monogamy Disrupted

Jay&Liv

Episode 34 - Single Male Fails & Soft Swap Success

At first thought, finding a single male to play with seems like it would be easy to do yet we've encountered some challenges recently and Kay was stood up (twice!) while trying to dip her toes back into the hotwife waters. 

We get voicemails galore as Adam & Eve from Spiritual Swingers unwind post-Desire and C from Swinging Downunder reminisces about our first meeting at NiN two years ago.  Speaking of NiN, Jay & Angie from Average Swingers and C from SDU play a little prank on us using our voicemail for callers. 

We review sex toys from TooTimid.com where you can save 20% off your entire order by using our code "Redlight" at checkout. 

Kay enjoys anal sex, enough said.  Jay discusses the joys of the male double orgasm and we share some details about a sexy date that we had with some friends after our first date was cut short due to illness. 

We finish up with Kay's Corner and tell you what's coming up for us. 

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Episode 33 - Guest Episode - Newbies Explore Desire Pearl

Meet the Tanners.  They are our guest podcasters on this episode and although they are brand new to the Lifestyle, they courageously decided to plunge right in to the sexy waters of Desire Pearl and explore and define their sexual boundaries together. 

This episode is geared towards those that are thinking about booking a trip to a clothing optional resort such as Desire Pearl but may not define themselves as swingers or as "being in the lifestyle".  Though, like the Tanners, you may change your mind as to how you think you fit in once you are immersed in such a sexy setting. 

This is their story and their experience.  If you would like to contact them with questions or comments they can be reached at 214everyday@gmail.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Desire Pearl

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Episode 32 - Culinary Delight

We tell you about a cooking class date we had with a lovely couple  that was complicated by illness yet still managed to be sexy.  We caught up with Mr. & Mrs. Jones from @WeGottaThing and met Adam & Eve from @SpiritualSwing before Jay makes amends for interrupting Kay during a sexy description on the last episode.  Finally we wind up with the tale of a sexy photo shoot before closing with Kay's corner. 

Mentioned:

We Gotta Thing - Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Spiritual Swingers - Adam & Eve

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Scott Davis Photography

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Episode 31 - The Action Packed Episode

Jay & Kay catch you up on their busy spring and hang out with C from Swinging Downunder along with Nate & Liv.  We attend a Gin Dig and meet some sexy listeners from California.  We attend Liv's birthday in DC and end up at a hooka bar.  Kay's Corner catches listeners up on their questions.  We ran a half marathon with We Gotta Thing and discuss that as well as tackle criticism from the email inbox.

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing

Swinging Downunder

Nate & Liv

Casey Donatello - In Bed With Strangers

Spiritual Swingers

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Episode 30 - First MFM and PLAYGRND house party

We catch you up on the past month or so of our lives and tell you how we came to have our first MFM, a wildly successful and sexy evening out where we found that reality can sometimes be just as good as fantasy.  By unpredictable means, Jay goes alone to a house party hosted by the PLAYGRND crew in the DC area and has a note from home allowing him to get a blowjob.  We discuss that, the aftermath and more.  Kay's corner answers the questions, "How do I bring up the lifestyle without making my partner feel inadequate" and "How do I prepare my lady bits for the sun and fun in Desire"?

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Episode 29 - Desire Riviera Maya

We finally make it to Desire and it's the adventure that we hoped it would be.  The weather was perfect and so were the friends that we made.  We talk you through our days and nights from poolside to the disco and hot tub as well as a catamaran trip we took that ended in a day excursion to Desire Pearl. 

Of course there's sex!  We fill you in our own connections and the difficulty we had staying connected during a play session.  We end with our first parallel play session and discuss all the feels that went along with this trip.  It's a long one, so buckle up and enjoy the ride. 

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Episode 28 - Yoga Sex and The Cabin Getaway

We meet a new couple for some flexible four way fun and then fill you in on a weekend away with some friends at a cabin for a ski weekend in which there was little skiing, but lots of sexiness. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Eugene Drinks Every State's Most Iconic Alcohol

Swinger Diaries

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Episode 27 - Holiday Spice

We begin with our Halloween night out and briefly discuss seeing our local friends before heading back to a hotel room for a night of sex with our friends Nick and Cleo, better known as "The Italian Couple". 

We also discuss having great nights out with lifestyle friends sans sex, just enjoying the company of wonderful people when we attend a concert and go to a White Elephant party with LS folks. 

We catch you up on our single guy situation and discuss some feelings that arise surrounding that topic.

Finally, Kay leaves you with a special holiday edition of "Kay's Corner" in which she tells an erotic story from back in her college days

Mentioned in this podcast.

Swinging Down Under

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

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Episode 26 - Hotwife

As part two of our back-to-back separate play episodes, Kay has solo play with a single male!  She gave up on the lifestyle sites and took to Tinder to find a single male of her choosing.  As before, we discuss everything that led up to that moment and beyond and relate it to my solo play that we discussed in Episode 25. 

Incredibly, we also somehow managed to end up in bed with our good VANILLA friends, who happen to be a lesbian couple.  You're going to want to tune it to this episode. 

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Episode 25 - Stunt Cock

This is part one of a two part series where we each play separately.  In this episode, Jay spends time alone with a Texas couple and we discuss everything related to the events leading up to that night, the emotions involved and yes, even the sexy play. 

But first we spend a little time talking about catching up with local friends. We ran a terrain race with a group of sexy lifestylers followed by a booty brunch 6-some where I commit a towel-foul.  We also caught up with our friends from We Gotta Thing for a pants-on race and spent an afternoon eating crabs with the Italian Couple. 

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Episode 24B - Nate & Liv Return to Japan

We continue our hangout with Nate & Liv and as the whiskey settles in, they tell us the story of their most recent trip to Japan.  They discuss some sexy BDSM-style hotel rooms (see the image for Episode 24A) and Nate revisits his old sex dojo for some solo fun!  We talk about exploring solo play and the conversations that occur behind close doors leading up to that point.

Mentioned in this episode:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

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Episode 24A - Swinging in Japan with Nate & Liv

We have the pleasure of spending an evening with Nate & Liv after their return from a second Japanese vacation.  They share their whiskey collection and tell us their tales of what it's like to be an American breaking into the Japanese swinging scene.  This is a two part series where they tell last years story (a repeat podcast that we failed to capture during the first telling) and then, in part B, the most recent trip. 

Mentioned in this Podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Tokyo Adult Guide

Tokyo Happening Club: Bliss Out

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Episode 23 - Playtime Passions May Vary

Flirting with another person in front of your spouse can be challenging for some people and comes easily to others.  Jay & Kay discuss some of the issues involved with expressing desire towards another while simultaneously reassuring your partner that different doesn't equal better. 

We then discuss a second date in which one of us had a stronger physical connection in bed with a couple during a full swap and how we could try to improve our communication in real time for future encounters. 

We transition to Kay's corner where we discuss three questions from listeners before discussing Kay's first solo appearance at a house party and Jay's reaction to it. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Clit-sucking vibrator - Melrose Electric Suck Massager

We aren't who you think we are - Blog by We Gotta Thing

Perly's in Richmond

Swinger Diaries

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Episode 22 - Average Swingers Next Door

Kay & Jay spend some time in San Antonio, TX and they drive up to Austin to catch up with Jay & Angie from Average Swingers.  The four of us have a night out in Austin on 6th Street and then hit Lake Travis the following day for an amazing event, Butts, Boobs and Boats XII.  We team up for a joint podcast and have some laughs. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Two or More to Tango

Swap Fu

Holli & Michael

We Gotta Thing

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Episode 21 - Sexy Talk & Transitions

We discuss upcoming events, a hot date night with our friends Nick & Cleo and respond to listener emails.  We unveil our new Kay's Corner jingle and recommend another sexy lifestyle podcast to listen to.

Mentioned in this podcast (In order of mention).

Average Swingers with Jay & Angie

Boobs, Butts and Boats - Austin, TX 21-22 July

The Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Swinger Diaries with Penn & Paige

Swinging Down Under with C & D

Real Talk Between The Sheets with Jake & Sophia

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Episode 20 - HUMP! fest and Irish BJs

We're back and we discuss our experience with tiptoeing into the single male waters, from encountering a married male to a dom.  We tell you about the great podcast we recorded last month and an eye-opening night out to view homemade porn at Dan Savage's HUMP! fest.  We raise the veil for a peek into our vanilla life and tell you about our recent vacation to Ireland and how to turn a regular castle tour into a dungeon blowjob.  Finally, we are saddened to share the news of Mr. And Mrs. Jones at We Gotta Thing who were recently outed and ask you to reach out in support of them. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Mr. & Mrs. Jones - We Gotta Thing

Dan Savage - Hump! film festival

Blarney Castle, Ireland

moist

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