Sexy

Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy

In this episode, Jay & Kay are joined by their friends Nate, Liv, Amy & Rory with guest audio appearances by Donny and Marie as they try to describe the sexy details of a 10 person orgy, which, as you can imagine, can be very difficult to recall because there are so many individual sexy experiences occurring simultaneously. 

The night evolved from what was supposed to be a private dinner between Donny & Marie and Jay & Kay but grew to include Nate & Liv, Amy & Rory as well as a very sexy single female named Sonja and our now well known artist friend Ryan. 

There is a lot of shared laughter in this episode and we work to try to minimize or explain inside jokes. If you are a veteran listener then you will know these important people in our lives and laugh along with us. If you're a new listener, you will be treated to what lifestyle friendships can and do become, tightly interwoven circles of trust and support. 

Spliced into our conversation are recordings from Donny and Marie, our guests from the Pacific Northwest who came to Washington DC for a vacation of our Nation's Capital. They wanted to see the Cherry Blossom Festival and tour the Smithsonian museums, but no vacation is complete without a 10-person orgy. They graciously share their memories with us, essentially making this two podcasts in one.

As fun as the friendships are and as sexy as the orgy was, there are many great personal details sprinkled throughout. Introspective reflections and thoughtful musings permeate this episode. Those details, shared in the context of our move away from these friends, make Episode 45 my personal favorite and I hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it. -J

Technical note

About 45 seconds in to our cabin recording the input wire becomes partially removed creating a less powerful sound. This resolves after a few minutes. 

Mentioned:

Temptation and Desire with the PLAY GRND crew- Feb 2020 - info@playgrnd.events

Dr. and Sexy Thing 

Line 1/Line 2 

Oregon TMS 

Episode 31 - The Action Packed Episode

Jay & Kay catch you up on their busy spring and hang out with C from Swinging Downunder along with Nate & Liv.  We attend a Gin Dig and meet some sexy listeners from California.  We attend Liv's birthday in DC and end up at a hooka bar.  Kay's Corner catches listeners up on their questions.  We ran a half marathon with We Gotta Thing and discuss that as well as tackle criticism from the email inbox.

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing

Swinging Downunder

Nate & Liv

Casey Donatello - In Bed With Strangers

Spiritual Swingers

Episode 25 - Stunt Cock

This is part one of a two part series where we each play separately.  In this episode, Jay spends time alone with a Texas couple and we discuss everything related to the events leading up to that night, the emotions involved and yes, even the sexy play. 

But first we spend a little time talking about catching up with local friends. We ran a terrain race with a group of sexy lifestylers followed by a booty brunch 6-some where I commit a towel-foul.  We also caught up with our friends from We Gotta Thing for a pants-on race and spent an afternoon eating crabs with the Italian Couple. 

Episode 23 - Playtime Passions May Vary

Flirting with another person in front of your spouse can be challenging for some people and comes easily to others.  Jay & Kay discuss some of the issues involved with expressing desire towards another while simultaneously reassuring your partner that different doesn't equal better. 

We then discuss a second date in which one of us had a stronger physical connection in bed with a couple during a full swap and how we could try to improve our communication in real time for future encounters. 

We transition to Kay's corner where we discuss three questions from listeners before discussing Kay's first solo appearance at a house party and Jay's reaction to it. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Clit-sucking vibrator - Melrose Electric Suck Massager

We aren't who you think we are - Blog by We Gotta Thing

Perly's in Richmond

Swinger Diaries

Episode 22 - Average Swingers Next Door

Kay & Jay spend some time in San Antonio, TX and they drive up to Austin to catch up with Jay & Angie from Average Swingers.  The four of us have a night out in Austin on 6th Street and then hit Lake Travis the following day for an amazing event, Butts, Boobs and Boats XII.  We team up for a joint podcast and have some laughs. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Two or More to Tango

Swap Fu

Holli & Michael

We Gotta Thing

Episode 18 - Cleo's Sexy Santa Sicilian Celebration

We veer from our usual podcast format and have our Italian friends over for a vanilla hangout night and discuss the hotel party that we had for Cleo's birthday which occurred just before Christmas.  There was a Christmas theme and hot little elves, legs wrapped in candy cane stockings and sexy Santa's were omnipresent.  We also discuss private Facebook groups and our introduction to them through Nick and Cleo. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 14 - The Halloween Party

We attend our first lifestyle Halloween party and had an amazing time with 15 other couples.  The hosts created a very sexy atmosphere and everyone was in costume (well, until they were naked).  Things get hot quickly and there is sex everywhere you look.  Kay gets her first DVP and we discuss a surprise visit from that notorious emotion, jealousy. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

The Game of Lifestyle

Episode 5 - Separate Rooms and Dates Gone Wrong

We head out on a couple of dates to meet people and red flags go up everywhere, dating couples can be hard!  We did have success meeting a new couple though and we talk about that sexy encounter where we couldn’t physically see each other for the first time during play. It was arousing and brought up all kinds of new discussions among us.