Episode 75 - Violet & The Den of Darkness

Episode 75 - Violet & The Den of Darkness

We take the risk of sharing details of our personal life with a coworker and not only does she accept us, she joins us for a rave with LS friends and an orgy afterward. We're joined by Chris & Vanessa from DC, Maverick & Vanessa from Canada as well as new friends.

We talk about feeling people out to be comfortable sharing risky information, raves and rave girl outfits, PLUR life, shaving buttholes, orgies and more!

There's a fun bonus story about almost getting caught on Chaturbate by Vanessa & Becky at the end

Episode 74 - SkyLab

We spend a night in a very sexy AirBnB with new friends, Todd & Bailey! They are friends of friends and came with receipts so we knew we'd hit it off. We had a night (and morning) full of laughs, cookies, DP and impact play. We have a feeling that there's going to be a part II to this story.

Our chat community on MeWe has grown with Patrons from all over the world supporting each other and sharing sexy stories and photos from their adventures.  Thank you so much for your support, we truly have the best fans in the lifestyle podcast community.  Your messages and kindness really keep us going!  For those joining the MeWe chat, please take a moment to introduce yourself to the community.  Tell us what brought you there and what intrigues you about the lifestyle.

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Episode 73 - Triple Pineapple Social Community

We sit down with Cash & Noelle and discuss the community that they've started in the greater Seattle area to help "non-traditionalists" meet up and have fun. They host meet-and-greets, sporting events, roller skating, dancing and more. Their goal: to facilitate an environment of no-pressure gatherings for couples to find new friends and have fun with old pals. We finish the episode by recalling a fun night out to SuperNova and the after-orgy that followed.

Episode 71 - International Scandal

After more than a year of waiting for the Northern border to open up we finally meet Maverick and Vanessa who join us at Logan and Jade's home for a wild sixsome. The Canadians bring their toys and the hosts combine technology and hospitality to create a very sensual environment.

Episode 70 - Roryland 2021 (Featuring Chris and Vanessa)

We fly from Seattle back to DC to attend Rory's rave-themed birthday party hosted at Chris and Vanessa's home. What a night! There were approximately 20 couples and singles that turned out in beautiful outfits decked out in rainbow, neon, glow, fishnet, leather...you name it. The music indoors was pumping out incredible bass drops while people hula hooped and used light up whips or sat in the bass-vest chair. Walking outside, the vibe changes completely and you're bathed in warm summer air and a chill musical vibe. There is sexiness everywhere in the house and out in the pool, the hot tub and even...a trampoline. Chris and Vanessa join us to recall the incredible birthday celebration that was Roryland 2021.

Episode 68 - Desire 2021 Part Deux

It's the second half of our 2021 Desire Riviera Maya trip and we talk about Liv's birthday, a sun-drenched orgy and villa gangbang. New friends, glow night fun and much more.

Episode 66 - Weekend with Rose - Sleepless in Seattle

In this episode, Jay & Kay host Rose, a lovely temporary unicorn for a weekend getaway in Seattle.  It's a novel experience for us and features surprises, sleepless nights, blunders and lots of sexy stories. We explore the city together and each other. We think you'll enjoy this episode as we dive headfirst into the retelling of a wild weekend. 

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Our chat community on MeWe has grown with Patrons from all over the world supporting each other and sharing sexy stories and photos from their adventures.  Thank you so much for your support, we truly have the best fans in the lifestyle podcast community.  Your messages and kindness really keep us going!  For those joining the MeWe chat, please take a moment to introduce yourself to the community.  Tell us what brought you there and what intrigues you about the lifestyle.

Come chat with us!  https://www.mewe.com/join/thatcouplenextdoor

Episode 63 - The 4OURPLAY Game

In this episode, Jay & Kay reconnect by asking each other questions from the 4OURPLAY conversation deck, one of several game packs created by Bella & Jase, hosts of the 4OURPLAY podcast.  We really enjoyed it and ultimately, as advertised, the game worked as foreplay and we ended up in bed together.  We hope you'll enjoy hanging out with us as we dive deep into each other's sexy thoughts. 

4OURPLAY.com

Episode 60 - Love is Art (with bonus "Sidebar about Vaginas" featuring Nate & Liv)

In this episode we mark five years of podcasting and talk about how we've been focusing on keeping things sexy between us during these COVID-19 times.  We reflect on our podcasting and lifestyle journey and answer a related question in Kay's Corner.  We share a sexy story gone awry when friends of ours sent a "Love is Art" painting kit for us to try out.  Kay is on the search for men's muscle photos in exchange for a male sex toy and we end the show with bonus material from 2017 when we were spending time with Nate & Liv in preparation to record the Japanese episodes.  

This month we're sending a TCND mug to Sex Uninterrupted for their support of the podcast. 

Episode 56 - The Amazon and Full Swap Car Sex

We hope that you are all continuing to stay safe during this COVID-19 pandemic.  Like you, we are still practicing social distancing and our lifestyle activities have remained at a halt.  We have been doing our best to keep our romance alive with sexy nights alone together and shared chats with friends using teleconferencing.  

We hope you'll enjoy some stories from the end of last summer when we first moved out to Washington state.  In this episode, we highlight two couples that we met.  The first introduces us to a fun new sex move that we hadn't even heard of before, "The Amazon".  The second couple, Ben & Yvette join us on the podcast to help tell the story of when we first met them and ended up...well, you'll have to listen and find out.  

We laugh our way through this episode and hope that it will bring a smile to your faces.  We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us!!

Mentioned in this Episode:

Audio Desires - Steamy recount of our episode with The Artist

Episode 53 - Hotwife III - Coffee & Cream

Kay dips her toes in the West Coast single male waters and has mixed experiences.  First, the tedious task of wading through hundreds of online profiles from Tinder and Feeld in order to find the men that excite her.  When she finally goes to meet one, she finds that he has misrepresented himself and worse, tries to lock himself in a public bathroom with her while at a restaurant in our home city.  That ended quickly and she drove to my work where I was working overnight.  We talked through the situation and she looked so beautiful that I just had to take her to a back room and fuck her right there at work.  The story has a happy ending you could say, she met another man who was everything that he claimed to be and after a coffee date, they hit it off and went back to his place.  You'll have to tune in to hear what happens from there, but we're pretty sure you'll enjoy every little detail.  

Kay's Corner leads off tonight and answers a question about when she felt comfortable watching Jay have sex with another woman and like most of our episodes, there's an audio nugget tucked in to the end of the show where Liv, Amy and Kay talk about dry humping vs. grinding.

Episode 52 - West Coast House Party

We attend our first West Coast house party and though we met so many great new people, emerging from that sea of sexiness was one very special couple, Cole and Marie.  We talk about shedding nerves, lingerie, house party games, pee dances, white claw, hot tubs and hot sex (that lasted a few minutes.)  

Kay's Corner answers questions about hooking up with single men as a hotwife and like most of our episodes, there's an audio nugget tucked in to the end of the show where Rory waxes poetic about his love for us and how Amy crossed land and sea for his penis. 

We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us!!

Travel News:

Temptation 14-17 FEB 2020

Desire 17-21 FEB 2020

Episode 51 - Club Privata Birthday Bash

IT’S A DOUBLE EPISODE!

Take your time with this one, it's our longest episode to date and there are built in breaks for this 2.5 hour birthday weekend celebration with special guests Adam & Belle from Swinging Outside the Lines podcast. We have guest audio galore to help us recall this seriously sexy getaway to Portland, Oregon.

Kay and I celebrated our shared birthdays at Club Privata and over 90 people came out to party with us. It was such a sexy crowd and we met so many wonderful people with incredible personal and lifestyle stories. From the planning phases to the Friday night M&G, Saturday morning strip club field trip, daytime cuddles and lifestyle quickies to the dinners and the club itself, no detail is left unexplored.

Like any good party, there's an after party, and this one did not disappoint as we had an eight person orgy that will be forever ingrained into the red light part of our memories.

We answer questions on Kay's corner, thank YOU our Patrons and finish up with some pretty funny bloopers at the end.

For even more details of this fun weekend, be sure to head over to Swinging Outside the Lines (or search for them on your favorite poscast catcher) and listen to their take for exclusive unheard audio not covered on our show.

MENTIONED:

Swinging Outside the Lines

Club Privata

Episode 50 - Hello Seattle

It's our 50th episode!!  We spent the first 49 on the East Coast (mostly) but in this episode we leave the East Coast orgy scene behind and strike out for new adventures in the Pacific Northwest.    We begin with the story of a failed blowjob challenge from Adam & Belle from the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast.  We then tell you about some new couples who welcomed us to the West Coast when we came out to do some house-hunting.  They say there's a thing called the "Seattle Freeze" but our experiences have been much...warmer.  All the sexy details follow.  There's no Kay's Corner on this episode (we need your questions!) but we did add some behind-the-scenes audio that will give you insight into our Top Secret pseudonym generation process.   

We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us for 50 Episodes!!

Mentioned:

Swinging Outside the Lines 

Travel News:

Club Privata 16 NOV 2019

Temptation 14-17 FEB 2020 (see below for discount code)

Desire 17-21 FEB 2020

Join us at Club Privata in Portland, Oregon on NOV 16 as we celebrate our birthdays and are joined by Adam & Belle From the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast!

Episode 48 - Crimson Light Night - PlayGRND M&G

Jay and Kay attend a M&G at Crimson in DC, hosted by our friends at PlayGRND parties.  This was going to be our last lifestyle event  before we left Washington DC and we wanted to go big.  Kay lets Jay pick out her stunning cocktail dress and we were immersed in a sea of diverse, sexy people all night long.  But before heading downstairs to turn heads, we had a planned pre-party orgy with sexy robes, blindfolds, handcuffs and some especially adventurous oral play by Kay.  We end the night with Rick and Robin, who is so hot she literally sets off a hotel fire alarm.

Mentioned:

PlayGRND Party

The Suite Life Podcast

Black and Kinky Podcast

Our Unicorn Diaries Podcast

Temptation Resort

Desire Riviera Maya

Episode 46 - Birthday Orgy at the Cabin

In this episode, we gathered with our friends to celebrate Chris' birthday at the lake house. We spent the weekend recording a joint podcast together (Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy), went hiking, played sexy games and the ladies gave Chris a lingerie birthday surprise that he will likely never forget. We played sexy games, made new friends and struggled to shed a couple that just didn't fit our dynamic that weekend.

Kay's corner answer questions about hotwifing and reconnection sex as well as techniques to guard your name or occupation at lifestyle resorts.

The bonus material at the end challenges listeners to Tweet to @drandsexything on Twitter if you can solve their pseudonym question.

Support us on Patreon or leave us a 5-star review everywhere you find our show. To have fun adventures just like this, follow our links to Double Date Nation (code REDLIGHT) or Kasidie (follow our banner link) and explore the lifestyle community.

Mentioned in this podcast:

Spiritual Swingers

Front Porch Swingers

Dr. and Sexy Thing

Swinger Diaries

We Gotta Thing

Podcast-a-Palooza 2

Swinging Downunder

Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy

In this episode, Jay & Kay are joined by their friends Nate, Liv, Amy & Rory with guest audio appearances by Donny and Marie as they try to describe the sexy details of a 10 person orgy, which, as you can imagine, can be very difficult to recall because there are so many individual sexy experiences occurring simultaneously. 

The night evolved from what was supposed to be a private dinner between Donny & Marie and Jay & Kay but grew to include Nate & Liv, Amy & Rory as well as a very sexy single female named Sonja and our now well known artist friend Ryan. 

There is a lot of shared laughter in this episode and we work to try to minimize or explain inside jokes. If you are a veteran listener then you will know these important people in our lives and laugh along with us. If you're a new listener, you will be treated to what lifestyle friendships can and do become, tightly interwoven circles of trust and support. 

Spliced into our conversation are recordings from Donny and Marie, our guests from the Pacific Northwest who came to Washington DC for a vacation of our Nation's Capital. They wanted to see the Cherry Blossom Festival and tour the Smithsonian museums, but no vacation is complete without a 10-person orgy. They graciously share their memories with us, essentially making this two podcasts in one.

As fun as the friendships are and as sexy as the orgy was, there are many great personal details sprinkled throughout. Introspective reflections and thoughtful musings permeate this episode. Those details, shared in the context of our move away from these friends, make Episode 45 my personal favorite and I hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it. -J

Technical note: 

About 45 seconds in to our cabin recording the input wire becomes partially removed creating a less powerful sound. This resolves after a few minutes. 

Mentioned:

Temptation and Desire with the PLAY GRND crew- Feb 2020 - info@playgrnd.events

Dr. and Sexy Thing 

Line 1/Line 2 

Oregon TMS 

Episode 43 - Dirty Talk in DC

In this episode, we reunite with our good friends Zack & Kelly that we spent a weekend in Nashville with (Ep. 41 - The MFM Artist and The Crush).  We were skeptical that we'd be able to achieve the same level of sexy fun but as it would turn out, there was nothing to worry about in that department! 

Kay and I started the evening on a sour note with an argument en-route to the date.  We'll tell you how we pulled over and hashed it out just in time to salvage what would become a memorable night.

Kay surprises us all with some next level dirty talk in what is the hottest soft swap experience we could imagine. 

We sneak in some audio from our friends and Kay's corner discusses sending nude photos to friends and posting them on Twitter. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder

Sliquid Lube

Swinging Outside the Lines

Playroom Podcast

Support us on Patreon!

Episode 42 - The Unicorn and Temptation Resort

We warm up a cold winter by spending an evening with a sexy unicorn named Rebecca before heading down to the warm beaches of Cancun, Mexico for some wild days and nights at Temptation Resort accompanied by our DC crew, the hosts of PLAYGRND parties as well as our friends Rob & Lala. 

We partied all day, danced all night and shared amazing meals and 5 lbs of Swedish Fish together...and of course there is sex.  Rob & Lala teach us about the ElectroErotic Neon Wand and rock our world several times.  Hear the scandalous story of "The Cover Up" where we nearly ruined an orgy.

We mix in some self reflection, lessons learned and laughter along the way.  Kay's Corner, Nate's wisdom and more!!

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder

Normalizing Non-Monogamy

Temptation Resort

ElectroErotic Neon Wand

PLAYGRND parties

Support us on Patreon!

The Coverup (featured on the episode image)