Sexuality

Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy

In this episode, Jay & Kay are joined by their friends Nate, Liv, Amy & Rory with guest audio appearances by Donny and Marie as they try to describe the sexy details of a 10 person orgy, which, as you can imagine, can be very difficult to recall because there are so many individual sexy experiences occurring simultaneously. 

The night evolved from what was supposed to be a private dinner between Donny & Marie and Jay & Kay but grew to include Nate & Liv, Amy & Rory as well as a very sexy single female named Sonja and our now well known artist friend Ryan. 

There is a lot of shared laughter in this episode and we work to try to minimize or explain inside jokes. If you are a veteran listener then you will know these important people in our lives and laugh along with us. If you're a new listener, you will be treated to what lifestyle friendships can and do become, tightly interwoven circles of trust and support. 

Spliced into our conversation are recordings from Donny and Marie, our guests from the Pacific Northwest who came to Washington DC for a vacation of our Nation's Capital. They wanted to see the Cherry Blossom Festival and tour the Smithsonian museums, but no vacation is complete without a 10-person orgy. They graciously share their memories with us, essentially making this two podcasts in one.

As fun as the friendships are and as sexy as the orgy was, there are many great personal details sprinkled throughout. Introspective reflections and thoughtful musings permeate this episode. Those details, shared in the context of our move away from these friends, make Episode 45 my personal favorite and I hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it. -J

Technical note

About 45 seconds in to our cabin recording the input wire becomes partially removed creating a less powerful sound. This resolves after a few minutes. 

Mentioned:

Temptation and Desire with the PLAY GRND crew- Feb 2020 - info@playgrnd.events

Dr. and Sexy Thing 

Line 1/Line 2 

Oregon TMS 

Episode 44 - The Artist's Farewell Encore

Kay's favorite single male, "The Artist" returns to DC for one more MFM before we move across the country.  This time we have a pre-play discussion to include our mutual fantasies and decide that he and Kay will play alone initially before I come in to join them. 

We discuss the lead-up, the nerves involved and those sweet moments of torture Jay endured while waiting for over an hour to join in the fun.  (He has a voyeur moment and could hear her moaning from outside the apartment!)

The story turns erotic with talk of anal play, double penetration, cock ring fails, sixty-nine and double cumshot facials. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder Podcast

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Episode 42 - The Unicorn and Temptation Resort

We warm up a cold winter by spending an evening with a sexy unicorn named Rebecca before heading down to the warm beaches of Cancun, Mexico for some wild days and nights at Temptation Resort accompanied by our DC crew, the hosts of PLAYGRND parties as well as our friends Rob & Lala. 

We partied all day, danced all night and shared amazing meals and 5 lbs of Swedish Fish together...and of course there is sex.  Rob & Lala teach us about the ElectroErotic Neon Wand and rock our world several times.  Hear the scandalous story of "The Cover Up" where we nearly ruined an orgy.

We mix in some self reflection, lessons learned and laughter along the way.  Kay's Corner, Nate's wisdom and more!!

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder

Normalizing Non-Monogamy

Temptation Resort

ElectroErotic Neon Wand

PLAYGRND parties

Support us on Patreon!

The Coverup (featured on the episode image)

Episode 40 - Traveling, Parenting & Flogging

In this episode we recap a vanilla-ish trip that we took to Peru with some of our closest lifestyle friends.  We had an amazing trip filled with adventure, fine dining and even a night of rooftop blowjobs.

We share the story of a sexy night with Rob & Lala, a hot couple who we had a fantastic night with who will also be joining us and the PlayGrnd crew at Temptation resorts Feb 15-18th. 

We cover our approach to parenting while participating in the lifestyle.  We've received many emails about the topic and wanted to share our personal approach and thoughts on the subject. 

We share some emails on Kay's Corner and tell you about some sexy upcoming events.  Tune in!

Mentioned in this episode:

PlayGrnd parties - Twitter: @playgrnd_party

Astrid & Gaston Restaurant

Ayahausca Restobar - Lima, Peru

Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast

Swinging Downunder

Sweet Tea & Whiskey

Lotus Blooms - Alexandria, VA sex boutique

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

 

Episode 39 - Separate Country Play

We share the details of a recent trip to Europe for Jay where he met a couple for some hotwife and MFM fun in Austria.  Meanwhile, Kay had a pair of successful single male dates and met one for hotwife play.  We discuss our feelings surrounding separate play and start to explore how we arrived at this place in the lifestyle.  Kay shares her feelings of envy after Jay purchases a lingerie gift for Anna.  

Mentioned:

Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast

Palmers Lingerie

Krampus

Episode 38 - Sophia and Dick

Our dear friend Sophia, the intro voice to our podcast, is back and her life has changed so much in the last two years.  She has a new man, Dick and they have been exploring the boundaries of non-monogamy together.  They've had threesomes with men and women and there's more to come.  To fully appreciate the transformation, be sure to listen to:

Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions!

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing - Episode 29: Lifestyle Rules and Boundaries

The Kinsey Scale

 

Episode 37 - Podcast-a-Palooza

We join our fellow podcasters Swinging Downunder with C&D, Spiritual Swingers with Adam & Even and lifestyle bloggers Kate & Mike from Monogamish Marriage for a fun-filled sexy weekend in NYC with our amazing listeners and readers who attended the event. 

What a weekend!  We had our first FFM, gave a presentation, met the sexiest listeners, attended an after party and finally had a podcaster/blogger orgy at the after after party.  So many sexy details in this episode that you won't want to miss. 

Featured in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Spiritual Swingers

Monogamish Marriage

Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Episode 20 - The Monogamish Marriage

Red Hot Pie

Episode 36 - Swingchella and the Anal Queen

We attend a PLAYGRND house party together for the first time and what a blast!  The hosts outdid themselves with a sexy guest list, nuru massages, hot tub, hookah, fire pits, photo booths and play areas.

Later we have a separate date with our friends Chris and Vanessa and she surprises everyone with her desire, and ability, to have DP. 

Kays corner, upcoming events and more!

Mentioned in this episode:

PLAYGRND parties

Swinging Downunder

Spiritual Swingers

Monogamish Marriage

We Gotta Thing

Episode 35 - The Surprise Hall Pass

Kay surprises Jay with a surprise hall pass while she's away on vacation, allowing him to be an "extra dick" for a birthday girl whom she's never met and to participate in an MFM threesome with our friends Nate & Liv.

We catch you up on our summer spent mostly apart and discuss boundary flexibility, counseling, future plans and more. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Nate & Liv

Average Swingers

Spiritual Swingers

Esther Perel

TooTimid - Remote Petite Panty Teaser

Monogamy Disrupted

Episode 34 - Single Male Fails & Soft Swap Success

At first thought, finding a single male to play with seems like it would be easy to do yet we've encountered some challenges recently and Kay was stood up (twice!) while trying to dip her toes back into the hotwife waters. 

We get voicemails galore as Adam & Eve from Spiritual Swingers unwind post-Desire and C from Swinging Downunder reminisces about our first meeting at NiN two years ago.  Speaking of NiN, Jay & Angie from Average Swingers and C from SDU play a little prank on us using our voicemail for callers. 

We review sex toys from TooTimid.com where you can save 20% off your entire order by using our code "Redlight" at checkout. 

Kay enjoys anal sex, enough said.  Jay discusses the joys of the male double orgasm and we share some details about a sexy date that we had with some friends after our first date was cut short due to illness. 

We finish up with Kay's Corner and tell you what's coming up for us. 

Episode 33 - Guest Episode - Newbies Explore Desire Pearl

The Tanners.jpg

Meet the Tanners.  They are our guest podcasters on this episode and although they are brand new to the Lifestyle, they courageously decided to plunge right in to the sexy waters of Desire Pearl and explore and define their sexual boundaries together. 

This episode is geared towards those that are thinking about booking a trip to a clothing optional resort such as Desire Pearl but may not define themselves as swingers or as "being in the lifestyle".  Though, like the Tanners, you may change your mind as to how you think you fit in once you are immersed in such a sexy setting. 

This is their story and their experience.  If you would like to contact them with questions or comments they can be reached at 214everyday@gmail.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Desire Pearl

Episode 32 - Culinary Delight

We tell you about a cooking class date we had with a lovely couple  that was complicated by illness yet still managed to be sexy.  We caught up with Mr. & Mrs. Jones from @WeGottaThing and met Adam & Eve from @SpiritualSwing before Jay makes amends for interrupting Kay during a sexy description on the last episode.  Finally we wind up with the tale of a sexy photo shoot before closing with Kay's corner. 

Mentioned:

We Gotta Thing - Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Spiritual Swingers - Adam & Eve

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Scott Davis Photography

Episode 30 - First MFM and PLAYGRND house party

We catch you up on the past month or so of our lives and tell you how we came to have our first MFM, a wildly successful and sexy evening out where we found that reality can sometimes be just as good as fantasy.  By unpredictable means, Jay goes alone to a house party hosted by the PLAYGRND crew in the DC area and has a note from home allowing him to get a blowjob.  We discuss that, the aftermath and more.  Kay's corner answers the questions, "How do I bring up the lifestyle without making my partner feel inadequate" and "How do I prepare my lady bits for the sun and fun in Desire"?

Mentioned in this episode:

PLAYGRND party - Twitter

Rachel Krantz - Twitter

Swinging DownUnder - Podcast

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

The Curious Couple - Podcast

Swinger Diaries - Podcast

HUMP! film festival

Episode 29 - Desire Riviera Maya

We finally make it to Desire and it's the adventure that we hoped it would be.  The weather was perfect and so were the friends that we made.  We talk you through our days and nights from poolside to the disco and hot tub as well as a catamaran trip we took that ended in a day excursion to Desire Pearl. 

Of course there's sex!  We fill you in our own connections and the difficulty we had staying connected during a play session.  We end with our first parallel play session and discuss all the feels that went along with this trip.  It's a long one, so buckle up and enjoy the ride. 

Episode 28 - Yoga Sex and The Cabin Getaway

We meet a fun new couple for some (very) flexible four-way fun and then fill you in on an incredible weekend away with some friends at a cabin for a ski weekend in which there was little skiing, but lots of sexiness. We try to make every state’s iconic drink, play games, brave the snow naked to get to the hot-tub and enjoy each other’s company to the fullest. Dancing, flirting, virtual porn, Kay’s corner and more!

Mentioned in this podcast:

Eugene Drinks Every State's Most Iconic Alcohol

Swinger Diaries

Episode 27 - Holiday Spice

We begin with our Halloween night out and briefly discuss seeing our local friends before heading back to a hotel room for a night of sex with our friends Nick and Cleo, better known as "The Italian Couple". 

We also discuss having great nights out with lifestyle friends sans sex, just enjoying the company of wonderful people when we attend a concert and go to a White Elephant party with LS folks. 

We catch you up on our single guy situation and discuss some feelings that arise surrounding that topic.

Finally, Kay leaves you with a special holiday edition of "Kay's Corner" in which she tells an erotic story from back in her college days

Mentioned in this podcast.

Swinging Down Under

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Episode 26 - Hotwife

As part two of our back-to-back separate play episodes, Kay has solo play with a single male!  She gave up on the lifestyle sites and took to Tinder to find a single male of her choosing.  As before, we discuss everything that led up to that moment and beyond and relate it to my solo play that we discussed in Episode 25. 

Incredibly, we also somehow managed to end up in bed with our good VANILLA friends, who happen to be a lesbian couple.  You're going to want to tune it to this episode. 

Episode 24B - Nate & Liv Return to Japan

We continue our hangout with Nate & Liv and as the whiskey settles in, they tell us the story of their most recent trip to Japan.  They discuss some sexy BDSM-style hotel rooms (see the image for Episode 24A) and Nate revisits his old sex dojo for some solo fun!  We talk about exploring solo play and the conversations that occur behind close doors leading up to that point.

Mentioned in this episode:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Episode 24A - Swinging in Japan with Nate & Liv

We have the pleasure of spending an evening with Nate & Liv after their return from a second Japanese vacation.  They share their whiskey collection and tell us their tales of what it's like to be an American breaking into the Japanese swinging scene.  This is a two part series where they tell last years story (a repeat podcast that we failed to capture during the first telling) and then, in part B, the most recent trip. 

Mentioned in this Podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Tokyo Adult Guide

Tokyo Happening Club: Bliss Out

Episode 22 - Average Swingers Next Door

Kay & Jay spend some time in San Antonio, TX and they drive up to Austin to catch up with Jay & Angie from Average Swingers.  The four of us have a night out in Austin on 6th Street and then hit Lake Travis the following day for an amazing event, Butts, Boobs and Boats XII.  We team up for a joint podcast and have some laughs. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Two or More to Tango

Swap Fu

Holli & Michael

We Gotta Thing