Episode 28 - Yoga Sex and The Cabin Getaway

We meet a fun new couple for some (very) flexible four-way fun and then fill you in on an incredible weekend away with some friends at a cabin for a ski weekend in which there was little skiing, but lots of sexiness. We try to make every state’s iconic drink, play games, brave the snow naked to get to the hot-tub and enjoy each other’s company to the fullest. Dancing, flirting, virtual porn, Kay’s corner and more!

Mentioned in this podcast:

Eugene Drinks Every State's Most Iconic Alcohol

Swinger Diaries

Episode 27 - Holiday Spice

We begin with our Halloween night out and briefly discuss seeing our local friends before heading back to a hotel room for a night of sex with our friends Nick and Cleo, better known as "The Italian Couple". 

We also discuss having great nights out with lifestyle friends sans sex, just enjoying the company of wonderful people when we attend a concert and go to a White Elephant party with LS folks. 

We catch you up on our single guy situation and discuss some feelings that arise surrounding that topic.

Finally, Kay leaves you with a special holiday edition of "Kay's Corner" in which she tells an erotic story from back in her college days

Mentioned in this podcast.

Swinging Down Under

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Episode 26 - Hotwife

As part two of our back-to-back separate play episodes, Kay has solo play with a single male!  She gave up on the lifestyle sites and took to Tinder to find a single male of her choosing.  As before, we discuss everything that led up to that moment and beyond and relate it to my solo play that we discussed in Episode 25. 

Incredibly, we also somehow managed to end up in bed with our good VANILLA friends, who happen to be a lesbian couple.  You're going to want to tune it to this episode. 

Episode 25 - Stunt Cock

This is part one of a two part series where we each play separately.  In this episode, Jay spends time alone with a Texas couple and we discuss everything related to the events leading up to that night, the emotions involved and yes, even the sexy play. 

But first we spend a little time talking about catching up with local friends. We ran a terrain race with a group of sexy lifestylers followed by a booty brunch 6-some where I commit a towel-foul.  We also caught up with our friends from We Gotta Thing for a pants-on race and spent an afternoon eating crabs with the Italian Couple. 

Episode 24B - Nate & Liv Return to Japan

We continue our hangout with Nate & Liv and as the whiskey settles in, they tell us the story of their most recent trip to Japan.  They discuss some sexy BDSM-style hotel rooms (see the image for Episode 24A) and Nate revisits his old sex dojo for some solo fun!  We talk about exploring solo play and the conversations that occur behind close doors leading up to that point.

Mentioned in this episode:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Episode 24A - Swinging in Japan with Nate & Liv

We have the pleasure of spending an evening with Nate & Liv after their return from a second Japanese vacation.  They share their whiskey collection and tell us their tales of what it's like to be an American breaking into the Japanese swinging scene.  This is a two part series where they tell last years story (a repeat podcast that we failed to capture during the first telling) and then, in part B, the most recent trip. 

Mentioned in this Podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Tokyo Adult Guide

Tokyo Happening Club: Bliss Out

Episode 23 - Playtime Passions May Vary

Flirting with another person in front of your spouse can be challenging for some people and comes easily to others.  Jay & Kay discuss some of the issues involved with expressing desire towards another while simultaneously reassuring your partner that different doesn't equal better. 

We then discuss a second date in which one of us had a stronger physical connection in bed with a couple during a full swap and how we could try to improve our communication in real time for future encounters. 

We transition to Kay's corner where we discuss three questions from listeners before discussing Kay's first solo appearance at a house party and Jay's reaction to it. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Clit-sucking vibrator - Melrose Electric Suck Massager

We aren't who you think we are - Blog by We Gotta Thing

Perly's in Richmond

Swinger Diaries

Episode 22 - Average Swingers Next Door

Kay & Jay spend some time in San Antonio, TX and they drive up to Austin to catch up with Jay & Angie from Average Swingers.  The four of us have a night out in Austin on 6th Street and then hit Lake Travis the following day for an amazing event, Butts, Boobs and Boats XII.  We team up for a joint podcast and have some laughs. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Two or More to Tango

Swap Fu

Holli & Michael

We Gotta Thing

Episode 21 - Sexy Talk & Transitions

We discuss upcoming events, a hot date night with our friends Nick & Cleo and respond to listener emails.  We unveil our new Kay's Corner jingle and recommend another sexy lifestyle podcast to listen to.

Mentioned in this podcast (In order of mention).

Average Swingers with Jay & Angie

Boobs, Butts and Boats - Austin, TX 21-22 July

The Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Swinger Diaries with Penn & Paige

Swinging Down Under with C & D

Real Talk Between The Sheets with Jake & Sophia

Episode 20 - HUMP! fest and Irish BJs

We're back and we discuss our experience with tiptoeing into the single male waters, from encountering a married male to a dom.  We tell you about the great podcast we recorded last month and an eye-opening night out to view homemade porn at Dan Savage's HUMP! fest.  We raise the veil for a peek into our vanilla life and tell you about our recent vacation to Ireland and how to turn a regular castle tour into a dungeon blowjob.  Finally, we are saddened to share the news of Mr. And Mrs. Jones at We Gotta Thing who were recently outed and ask you to reach out in support of them. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Mr. & Mrs. Jones - We Gotta Thing

Dan Savage - Hump! film festival

Blarney Castle, Ireland

moist

Episode 19 - Pajamas and DP Lesbians

We were invited to a onesie-themed pajama party where we were going to play board games/card games and maybe watch some Netflix and chill but we brought a game of our own that somehow led to a wild and unpredictable Saturday night where "chill" turned into DP sex with a lesbian couple.  We also have the first in our series of listener "car ride home" stories at the end of the podcast and linked here below. 

A couple from Miami shares their car ride home story here.  She was so wet...

Mentioned in this podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 @Twitter

Episode 18 - Cleo's Sexy Santa Sicilian Celebration

We veer from our usual podcast format and have our Italian friends over for a vanilla hangout night and discuss the hotel party that we had for Cleo's birthday which occurred just before Christmas.  There was a Christmas theme and hot little elves, legs wrapped in candy cane stockings and sexy Santa's were omnipresent.  We also discuss private Facebook groups and our introduction to them through Nick and Cleo. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 17 - They Gotta House Party

In this episode we attend a sexy house party hosted by our friends Mr. and Mrs. Jones.  Kay is limited by health issues but still shows up to have fun.  We enjoy spending time with old friends and meet some new ones.  We answer a couple listener emails and request that you send us your "car ride home" stories for an upcoming podcast. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing podcast with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

Swinger Diaries podcast with Penn and Paige

The Curious Couple podcast with T&A

Episode 16 - Italian Night at the House Party

After months of messaging and trying to line up dates, we were finally able to meet this fun Italian couple at a nearby house party.  We describe the layout of the house, Kay rides her first sybian and we have a discussion about risking rejection in order to put yourself out there when it comes time to move to the playroom.

Mentioned in this episode;

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 15 - Kay's 40th Birthday Party

Nearly five months in the making, Kay has a surprise 40th birthday and one year swing-a-versary celebration with some great sexy friends that we have made during our journey.  We have a special guest appearance from the folks that got us started in the lifestyle and everything comes together for a wonderful, fun, intimate evening. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinger Diaries with Penn and Paige

We Gotta Thing with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

Sax Restaurant in Washington DC

Episode 14 - The Halloween Party

We attend our first lifestyle Halloween party and had an amazing time with 15 other couples.  The hosts created a very sexy atmosphere and everyone was in costume (well, until they were naked).  Things get hot quickly and there is sex everywhere you look.  Kay gets her first DVP and we discuss a surprise visit from that notorious emotion, jealousy. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

The Game of Lifestyle

Episode 13 - Erection Problems - Co-podcast with We Gotta Thing

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Over the last few months, we've had the pleasure of becoming friends with Mr. and Mrs. Jones, hosts of the very popular lifestyle podcast "We Gotta Thing".  The last time we hung out, there was an embarrassing issue that we wanted to talk about.  In the heat of the moment I (Jay) was unable to maintain an erection.  Obviously this troubled me and I was ashamed not only in the moment, but for days afterward when I would think back to that night.  Struggling with my emotions, I discussed it with Kay and finally we reached out to the Jones' and decided to co-podcast on the issue so we could discuss not only my feelings, but how it affected all involved.

Mentioned in this podcast:

"We Gotta Thing" with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

"Massachusetts Male Aging Study" Am. J. Epidemiol. (2000) 152 (6): 533-541.

"Things that can deflate your erection" WebMD

Episode 12 - Hotel for Eight

We accept a last-minute invitation for drinks and more on a weekend night and end up sharing a hotel room with three other couples.  A sexy atmosphere leads to touching, kissing and finally to some hot moments for all involved. 

Kay calls me out for withholding some information and we discuss why it was wrong, how it made her feel and how we moved on. 

Finally, we took a tip from another podcast (Swinging DownUnder) and started "Freaky Fridays" a couple times each month where we explore each other and experiment with new things in the bedroom.

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Swinging DownUnder with C & D

Episode 11 - The Beach House

We discuss our struggle with the idea of bringing our kids along to a beach house when we were invited by some lifestyle friends.  We meet a new couple who are happy to answer our questions about polyamory.  Finally, we have a guest podcast session where we invite our friends to discuss their sexy encounter with us from their point of view. 

Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions!

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A few months after we entered the lifestyle we came out to our good friend Sophia and even let her know that we had started a podcast.  You may recognize her as the intro/extro voice to our podcast.  She was curious about what it meant to be a swinger and wrote some questions to surprise us with on our podcast.

Sophia has been our good friend for years.  We share many details of our lives, some intimate, and it was natural to let her know that we had joined the lifestyle, although we were still nervous to tell her initially.  She asks questions about swinging and then talks about her own relationship.

Mentioned in this podcast: The Average Swingers with Jay & Angie; Swinger Diaries with Penn & Paige