Episode 56 - The Amazon and Full Swap Car Sex

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We hope that you are all continuing to stay safe during this COVID-19 pandemic.  Like you, we are still practicing social distancing and our lifestyle activities have remained at a halt.  We have been doing our best to keep our romance alive with sexy nights alone together and shared chats with friends using teleconferencing.  

We hope you'll enjoy some stories from the end of last summer when we first moved out to Washington state.  In this episode, we highlight two couples that we met.  The first introduces us to a fun new sex move that we hadn't even heard of before, "The Amazon".  The second couple, Ben & Yvette join us on the podcast to help tell the story of when we first met them and ended up...well, you'll have to listen and find out.  

We laugh our way through this episode and hope that it will bring a smile to your faces.  We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us!!

Mentioned in this Episode:

Audio Desires - Steamy recount of our episode with The Artist

Episode 55 - Desire Riviera Maya 2020

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We hope that you are all staying safe during this COVID-19 pandemic.  Like you, we are practicing strict social distancing and any lifestyle activities have come to a sudden halt.  We have been doing our best to keep our romance alive with sexy nights alone together and shared chats with friends using teleconferencing.  It was exactly two months ago today when we boarded a plane for Cancun and now it seems like a lifetime ago already.  

We hope you'll enjoy some stories from the second half of our wonderful trip to Mexico where we spent a total of eight days in the sunshine while having fun and reuniting with our sexy friends from DC and around the US and Canada.  There were fabulous villa orgies, off-resort dining experiences, a hot reunion with the sexy Canadian bloggers from Monogamish Marriage.  Nate gets sick and Kay checks his temperature in a unique way.  All this and more to distract you during these trying times.  

Episode 54 - Temptation 2020

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We leave the PNW to head down to Mexico for 8 days of sunshine and fun while reuniting with our sexy friends from DC. We meet new friends including Scarlet, Lainey and some hotties from NC and FL and link up with some Canadian couples that we've had the pleasure of meeting before. You'll hear about a fabulous fivesome, Kay's dancing, Liv and Rich aroused from the wind and you'll get the inside track to discussions between Jay and Kay as they work their way through some lifestyle conflicts that came up on the trip. Jay, Rory and Nate encounter a Southern Belle at sea on the Boobs Cruise and so much more.

 

We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us!!

 

Our chat community on MeWe has grown with Patrons from all over the world supporting each other and sharing sexy stories and photos from their adventures.  Thank you so much for your support, we truly have the best fans in the lifestyle podcast community.  Your messages and kindness really keep us going!  For those in the MeWe chat, please take a moment to introduce yourself to the community.  Tell us what brought you there and what intrigues you about the lifestyle.

Episode 53 - Hotwife III - Coffee & Cream

Kay dips her toes in the West Coast single male waters and has mixed experiences.  First, the tedious task of wading through hundreds of online profiles from Tinder and Feeld in order to find the men that excite her.  When she finally goes to meet one, she finds that he has misrepresented himself and worse, tries to lock himself in a public bathroom with her while at a restaurant in our home city.  That ended quickly and she drove to my work where I was working overnight.  We talked through the situation and she looked so beautiful that I just had to take her to a back room and fuck her right there at work.  The story has a happy ending you could say, she met another man who was everything that he claimed to be and after a coffee date, they hit it off and went back to his place.  You'll have to tune in to hear what happens from there, but we're pretty sure you'll enjoy every little detail.  

Kay's Corner leads off tonight and answers a question about when she felt comfortable watching Jay have sex with another woman and like most of our episodes, there's an audio nugget tucked in to the end of the show where Liv, Amy and Kay talk about dry humping vs. grinding.

Episode 52 - West Coast House Party

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We attend our first West Coast house party and though we met so many great new people, emerging from that sea of sexiness was one very special couple, Cole and Marie.  We talk about shedding nerves, lingerie, house party games, pee dances, white claw, hot tubs and hot sex (that lasted a few minutes.)  

Kay's Corner answers questions about hooking up with single men as a hotwife and like most of our episodes, there's an audio nugget tucked in to the end of the show where Rory waxes poetic about his love for us and how Amy crossed land and sea for his penis. 

We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us!!

Travel News:

Temptation 14-17 FEB 2020

Desire 17-21 FEB 2020

Episode 51 - Club Privata Birthday Bash

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IT’S A DOUBLE EPISODE!

Take your time with this one, it's our longest episode to date and there are built in breaks for this 2.5 hour birthday weekend celebration with special guests Adam & Belle from Swinging Outside the Lines podcast. We have guest audio galore to help us recall this seriously sexy getaway to Portland, Oregon.

Kay and I celebrated our shared birthdays at Club Privata and over 90 people came out to party with us. It was such a sexy crowd and we met so many wonderful people with incredible personal and lifestyle stories. From the planning phases to the Friday night M&G, Saturday morning strip club field trip, daytime cuddles and lifestyle quickies to the dinners and the club itself, no detail is left unexplored.

Like any good party, there's an after party, and this one did not disappoint as we had an eight person orgy that will be forever ingrained into the red light part of our memories.

We answer questions on Kay's corner, thank YOU our Patrons and finish up with some pretty funny bloopers at the end.

For even more details of this fun weekend, be sure to head over to Swinging Outside the Lines (or search for them on your favorite poscast catcher) and listen to their take for exclusive unheard audio not covered on our show.

MENTIONED:

Swinging Outside the Lines

Club Privata

Episode 50 - Hello Seattle

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It's our 50th episode!!  We spent the first 49 on the East Coast (mostly) but in this episode we leave the East Coast orgy scene behind and strike out for new adventures in the Pacific Northwest.    We begin with the story of a failed blowjob challenge from Adam & Belle from the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast.  We then tell you about some new couples who welcomed us to the West Coast when we came out to do some house-hunting.  They say there's a thing called the "Seattle Freeze" but our experiences have been much...warmer.  All the sexy details follow.  There's no Kay's Corner on this episode (we need your questions!) but we did add some behind-the-scenes audio that will give you insight into our Top Secret pseudonym generation process.   

We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us for 50 Episodes!!

Mentioned:

Swinging Outside the Lines 

Travel News:

Club Privata 16 NOV 2019

Temptation 14-17 FEB 2020 (see below for discount code)

Desire 17-21 FEB 2020

Join us at Club Privata in Portland, Oregon on NOV 16 as we celebrate our birthdays and are joined by Adam & Belle From the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast!

Bonus Episode - Niko & Stella Swing on the PlayGRND

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Not long ago, we received an email from a listener who was going to be traveling through the Washington DC area and wanted to meet our friends, the hosts of PlayGRND parties in the DC area.  You've probably heard them on the show, Amy & Rory, Chris & Vanessa and Nate & Liv.  We forwarded their contact information along and luckily they had the time to meet this couple on their travels.  The result was a sexy evening between the eight of them with commentary on how this particular couple had one of their first really positive lifestyle experiences.  We recorded it in Seattle when the PlayGRND crew came out to visit us.  It was so great seeing them and catching up. Niko & Stella provide guest commentary from their point of view.

Technical note: Liv had some great commentary but her microphone was unplugged while we recorded so unfortunately she didn't pick up and thus, her comments were lost.

Episode 49 - The Graduation Orgy

Episode 49 - The Graduation Orgy

In this episode Jay and Kay have a celebration with a mix of family and lifestyle/vanilla friends which ends in yet another sexy orgy.  We explore and discuss the emotional impact of playing with a longtime vanilla friend and her fiance.  All the sexy details follow and Kay's Corner answers questions about penis size and the female impact from erectile dysfunction during play. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Club Privata 16 NOV 2020

Temptation 14-17 FEB 2020

Desire 17-21 FEB 2020

Sophia and Dick

Nate & Liv

Chris & Vanessa

Rich & Pam

Rick & Robin

Travel News:

Join us at Club Privata in Portland, Oregon on NOV 16 as we celebrate our birthdays and are joined by Adam & Belle From the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast!

Join us from FEB 14-17 at Temptation Resorts and from FEB 17-21 2020 at Desire Riviera Maya with the PLAYGRND crew and more!

Episode 48 - Crimson Light Night - PlayGRND M&G

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Jay and Kay attend a M&G at Crimson in DC, hosted by our friends at PlayGRND parties.  This was going to be our last lifestyle event  before we left Washington DC and we wanted to go big.  Kay lets Jay pick out her stunning cocktail dress and we were immersed in a sea of diverse, sexy people all night long.  But before heading downstairs to turn heads, we had a planned pre-party orgy with sexy robes, blindfolds, handcuffs and some especially adventurous oral play by Kay.  We end the night with Rick and Robin, who is so hot she literally sets off a hotel fire alarm.

Mentioned:

PlayGRND Party

The Suite Life Podcast

Black and Kinky Podcast

Our Unicorn Diaries Podcast

Temptation Resort

Desire Riviera Maya

Episode 47 - Every Gift Begins with Kay

Episode 47 - Every Gift Begins with Kay

Meet Seth & Caroline, a fun, classy and very sexy couple whom we first met on Seth's birthday.  We were the surprise and Caroline had worked behind the scenes for months to set up an after-dinner meeting with us in Washington DC.  We hit it off so well that it wasn't long before we set up another date night and well, you'll have to listen in to see how that went. 

Kay answers questions about attraction on Kay's Corner.  It turns out there's more than one way to win her over.  Rory talks Swinger NPR and more! 

Mentioned:

Episode 15 - Kay's 40th birthday

Episode 41 - The MFM Artist and The Crush

Episode 43 - Dirty Talk in DC

Nate & Liv

Amy & Rory

Zack & Kelly 

Travel News:

Join us from FEB 14-21 as we start our vacation at Temptation Resorts in Cancun and then change resorts to Desire Riviera Maya on the 18th.  We will be with the PLAYGRND crew and more!

Episode 46 - Birthday Orgy at the Cabin

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In this episode, we gathered with our friends to celebrate Chris' birthday at the lake house. We spent the weekend recording a joint podcast together (Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy), went hiking, played sexy games and the ladies gave Chris a lingerie birthday surprise that he will likely never forget. We played sexy games, made new friends and struggled to shed a couple that just didn't fit our dynamic that weekend.

Kay's corner answer questions about hotwifing and reconnection sex as well as techniques to guard your name or occupation at lifestyle resorts.

The bonus material at the end challenges listeners to Tweet to @drandsexything on Twitter if you can solve their pseudonym question.

Support us on Patreon or leave us a 5-star review everywhere you find our show. To have fun adventures just like this, follow our links to Double Date Nation (code REDLIGHT) or Kasidie (follow our banner link) and explore the lifestyle community.

Mentioned in this podcast:

Spiritual Swingers

Front Porch Swingers

Dr. and Sexy Thing

Swinger Diaries

We Gotta Thing

Podcast-a-Palooza 2

Swinging Downunder

Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy

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In this episode, Jay & Kay are joined by their friends Nate, Liv, Amy & Rory with guest audio appearances by Donny and Marie as they try to describe the sexy details of a 10 person orgy, which, as you can imagine, can be very difficult to recall because there are so many individual sexy experiences occurring simultaneously. 

The night evolved from what was supposed to be a private dinner between Donny & Marie and Jay & Kay but grew to include Nate & Liv, Amy & Rory as well as a very sexy single female named Sonja and our now well known artist friend Ryan. 

There is a lot of shared laughter in this episode and we work to try to minimize or explain inside jokes. If you are a veteran listener then you will know these important people in our lives and laugh along with us. If you're a new listener, you will be treated to what lifestyle friendships can and do become, tightly interwoven circles of trust and support. 

Spliced into our conversation are recordings from Donny and Marie, our guests from the Pacific Northwest who came to Washington DC for a vacation of our Nation's Capital. They wanted to see the Cherry Blossom Festival and tour the Smithsonian museums, but no vacation is complete without a 10-person orgy. They graciously share their memories with us, essentially making this two podcasts in one.

As fun as the friendships are and as sexy as the orgy was, there are many great personal details sprinkled throughout. Introspective reflections and thoughtful musings permeate this episode. Those details, shared in the context of our move away from these friends, make Episode 45 my personal favorite and I hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it. -J

Technical note

About 45 seconds in to our cabin recording the input wire becomes partially removed creating a less powerful sound. This resolves after a few minutes. 

Mentioned:

Temptation and Desire with the PLAY GRND crew- Feb 2020 - info@playgrnd.events

Dr. and Sexy Thing 

Line 1/Line 2 

Oregon TMS 

Episode 44 - The Artist's Farewell Encore

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Kay's favorite single male, "The Artist" returns to DC for one more MFM before we move across the country.  This time we have a pre-play discussion to include our mutual fantasies and decide that he and Kay will play alone initially before I come in to join them. 

We discuss the lead-up, the nerves involved and those sweet moments of torture Jay endured while waiting for over an hour to join in the fun.  (He has a voyeur moment and could hear her moaning from outside the apartment!)

The story turns erotic with talk of anal play, double penetration, cock ring fails, sixty-nine and double cumshot facials. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder Podcast

Support us on Patreon at the $5 level and access our bonus blog www.patreon.com/thatcouplenextdoor

Episode 43 - Dirty Talk in DC

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In this episode, we reunite with our good friends Zack & Kelly that we spent a weekend in Nashville with (Ep. 41 - The MFM Artist and The Crush).  We were skeptical that we'd be able to achieve the same level of sexy fun but as it would turn out, there was nothing to worry about in that department! 

Kay and I started the evening on a sour note with an argument en-route to the date.  We'll tell you how we pulled over and hashed it out just in time to salvage what would become a memorable night.

Kay surprises us all with some next level dirty talk in what is the hottest soft swap experience we could imagine. 

We sneak in some audio from our friends and Kay's corner discusses sending nude photos to friends and posting them on Twitter. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder

Sliquid Lube

Swinging Outside the Lines

Playroom Podcast

Support us on Patreon!

Episode 42 - The Unicorn and Temptation Resort

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We warm up a cold winter by spending an evening with a sexy unicorn named Rebecca before heading down to the warm beaches of Cancun, Mexico for some wild days and nights at Temptation Resort accompanied by our DC crew, the hosts of PLAYGRND parties as well as our friends Rob & Lala. 

We partied all day, danced all night and shared amazing meals and 5 lbs of Swedish Fish together...and of course there is sex.  Rob & Lala teach us about the ElectroErotic Neon Wand and rock our world several times.  Hear the scandalous story of "The Cover Up" where we nearly ruined an orgy.

We mix in some self reflection, lessons learned and laughter along the way.  Kay's Corner, Nate's wisdom and more!!

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder

Normalizing Non-Monogamy

Temptation Resort

ElectroErotic Neon Wand

PLAYGRND parties

Support us on Patreon!

The Coverup (featured on the episode image)

Episode 41 - The MFM Artist and the Crush

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Our artist friend returns to DC for a second MFM and Kay considers trying her first DP. We meet up with new friends in Nashville and have an incredible weekend together, sharing one of our sexiest stories to date. We tour the Jack Daniels distillery, plug Steak & Tequila’s snapchat, talk about the Lovense Lush 2, Kay’s corner and more!

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

Swinging Downunder - Podcast

Steak & Tequila - Pocast

Normalizing Nonmonogamy - Podcast

Lovense Lush 2 - Remote control vibrator

Episode 40 - Traveling, Parenting & Flogging

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In this episode we recap a vanilla-ish trip that we took to Peru with some of our closest lifestyle friends.  We had an amazing trip filled with adventure, fine dining and even a night of rooftop blowjobs.

We share the story of a sexy night with Rob & Lala, a hot couple who we had a fantastic night with who will also be joining us and the PlayGrnd crew at Temptation resorts Feb 15-18th. 

We cover our approach to parenting while participating in the lifestyle.  We've received many emails about the topic and wanted to share our personal approach and thoughts on the subject. 

We share some emails on Kay's Corner and tell you about some sexy upcoming events.  Tune in!

Mentioned in this episode:

PlayGrnd parties - Twitter: @playgrnd_party

Astrid & Gaston Restaurant

Ayahausca Restobar - Lima, Peru

Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast

Swinging Downunder

Sweet Tea & Whiskey

Lotus Blooms - Alexandria, VA sex boutique

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

 

Episode 39 - Separate Country Play

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We share the details of a recent trip to Europe for Jay where he met a couple for some hotwife and MFM fun in Austria.  Meanwhile, Kay had a pair of successful single male dates and met one for hotwife play.  We discuss our feelings surrounding separate play and start to explore how we arrived at this place in the lifestyle.  Kay shares her feelings of envy after Jay purchases a lingerie gift for Anna.  

Mentioned:

Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast

Palmers Lingerie

Krampus

Episode 38 - Sophia and Dick

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Our dear friend Sophia, the intro voice to our podcast, is back and her life has changed so much in the last two years.  She has a new man, Dick and they have been exploring the boundaries of non-monogamy together.  They've had threesomes with men and women and there's more to come.  To fully appreciate the transformation, be sure to listen to:

Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions!

Mentioned in this episode:

We Gotta Thing - Episode 29: Lifestyle Rules and Boundaries

The Kinsey Scale