It's the second half of our 2021 Desire Riviera Maya trip and we talk about Liv's birthday, a sun-drenched orgy and villa gangbang. New friends, glow night fun and much more.
Episode 56 - The Amazon and Full Swap Car Sex
We hope that you are all continuing to stay safe during this COVID-19 pandemic. Like you, we are still practicing social distancing and our lifestyle activities have remained at a halt. We have been doing our best to keep our romance alive with sexy nights alone together and shared chats with friends using teleconferencing.
We hope you'll enjoy some stories from the end of last summer when we first moved out to Washington state. In this episode, we highlight two couples that we met. The first introduces us to a fun new sex move that we hadn't even heard of before, "The Amazon". The second couple, Ben & Yvette join us on the podcast to help tell the story of when we first met them and ended up...well, you'll have to listen and find out.
We laugh our way through this episode and hope that it will bring a smile to your faces. We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us!!
Mentioned in this Episode:
Audio Desires - Steamy recount of our episode with The Artist
Episode 55 - Desire Riviera Maya 2020
We hope that you are all staying safe during this COVID-19 pandemic. Like you, we are practicing strict social distancing and any lifestyle activities have come to a sudden halt. We have been doing our best to keep our romance alive with sexy nights alone together and shared chats with friends using teleconferencing. It was exactly two months ago today when we boarded a plane for Cancun and now it seems like a lifetime ago already.
We hope you'll enjoy some stories from the second half of our wonderful trip to Mexico where we spent a total of eight days in the sunshine while having fun and reuniting with our sexy friends from DC and around the US and Canada. There were fabulous villa orgies, off-resort dining experiences, a hot reunion with the sexy Canadian bloggers from Monogamish Marriage. Nate gets sick and Kay checks his temperature in a unique way. All this and more to distract you during these trying times.
Episode 50 - Hello Seattle
It's our 50th episode!! We spent the first 49 on the East Coast (mostly) but in this episode we leave the East Coast orgy scene behind and strike out for new adventures in the Pacific Northwest. We begin with the story of a failed blowjob challenge from Adam & Belle from the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast. We then tell you about some new couples who welcomed us to the West Coast when we came out to do some house-hunting. They say there's a thing called the "Seattle Freeze" but our experiences have been much...warmer. All the sexy details follow. There's no Kay's Corner on this episode (we need your questions!) but we did add some behind-the-scenes audio that will give you insight into our Top Secret pseudonym generation process.
We hope you enjoy, and thanks again for supporting us for 50 Episodes!!
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Travel News:
Temptation 14-17 FEB 2020 (see below for discount code)
Join us at Club Privata in Portland, Oregon on NOV 16 as we celebrate our birthdays and are joined by Adam & Belle From the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast!
Episode 49 - The Graduation Orgy
In this episode Jay and Kay have a celebration with a mix of family and lifestyle/vanilla friends which ends in yet another sexy orgy. We explore and discuss the emotional impact of playing with a longtime vanilla friend and her fiance. All the sexy details follow and Kay's Corner answers questions about penis size and the female impact from erectile dysfunction during play.
Mentioned in this podcast:
Rich & Pam
Rick & Robin
Travel News:
Join us at Club Privata in Portland, Oregon on NOV 16 as we celebrate our birthdays and are joined by Adam & Belle From the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast!
Join us from FEB 14-17 at Temptation Resorts and from FEB 17-21 2020 at Desire Riviera Maya with the PLAYGRND crew and more!
Episode 48 - Crimson Light Night - PlayGRND M&G
Jay and Kay attend a M&G at Crimson in DC, hosted by our friends at PlayGRND parties. This was going to be our last lifestyle event before we left Washington DC and we wanted to go big. Kay lets Jay pick out her stunning cocktail dress and we were immersed in a sea of diverse, sexy people all night long. But before heading downstairs to turn heads, we had a planned pre-party orgy with sexy robes, blindfolds, handcuffs and some especially adventurous oral play by Kay. We end the night with Rick and Robin, who is so hot she literally sets off a hotel fire alarm.
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Episode 44 - The Artist's Farewell Encore
Kay's favorite single male, "The Artist" returns to DC for one more MFM before we move across the country. This time we have a pre-play discussion to include our mutual fantasies and decide that he and Kay will play alone initially before I come in to join them.
We discuss the lead-up, the nerves involved and those sweet moments of torture Jay endured while waiting for over an hour to join in the fun. (He has a voyeur moment and could hear her moaning from outside the apartment!)
The story turns erotic with talk of anal play, double penetration, cock ring fails, sixty-nine and double cumshot facials.
Mentioned in this episode:
Support us on Patreon at the $5 level and access our bonus blog www.patreon.com/thatcouplenextdoor
Episode 41 - The MFM Artist and the Crush
Our artist friend returns to DC for a second MFM and Kay considers trying her first DP. We meet up with new friends in Nashville and have an incredible weekend together, sharing one of our sexiest stories to date. We tour the Jack Daniels distillery, plug Steak & Tequila’s snapchat, talk about the Lovense Lush 2, Kay’s corner and more!
Mentioned in this episode:
We Gotta Thing - Podcast
Swinging Downunder - Podcast
Steak & Tequila - Pocast
Normalizing Nonmonogamy - Podcast
Lovense Lush 2 - Remote control vibrator
Episode 40 - Traveling, Parenting & Flogging
In this episode we recap a vanilla-ish trip that we took to Peru with some of our closest lifestyle friends. We had an amazing trip filled with adventure, fine dining and even a night of rooftop blowjobs.
We share the story of a sexy night with Rob & Lala, a hot couple who we had a fantastic night with who will also be joining us and the PlayGrnd crew at Temptation resorts Feb 15-18th.
We cover our approach to parenting while participating in the lifestyle. We've received many emails about the topic and wanted to share our personal approach and thoughts on the subject.
We share some emails on Kay's Corner and tell you about some sexy upcoming events. Tune in!
Mentioned in this episode:
PlayGrnd parties - Twitter: @playgrnd_party
Ayahausca Restobar - Lima, Peru
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast
Lotus Blooms - Alexandria, VA sex boutique
We Gotta Thing - Podcast
Episode 39 - Separate Country Play
We share the details of a recent trip to Europe for Jay where he met a couple for some hotwife and MFM fun in Austria. Meanwhile, Kay had a pair of successful single male dates and met one for hotwife play. We discuss our feelings surrounding separate play and start to explore how we arrived at this place in the lifestyle. Kay shares her feelings of envy after Jay purchases a lingerie gift for Anna.
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Episode 32 - Culinary Delight
We tell you about a cooking class date we had with a lovely couple that was complicated by illness yet still managed to be sexy. We caught up with Mr. & Mrs. Jones from @WeGottaThing and met Adam & Eve from @SpiritualSwing before Jay makes amends for interrupting Kay during a sexy description on the last episode. Finally we wind up with the tale of a sexy photo shoot before closing with Kay's corner.
Mentioned:
We Gotta Thing - Mr. & Mrs. Jones
Spiritual Swingers - Adam & Eve
Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv
Episode 30 - First MFM and PLAYGRND house party
We catch you up on the past month or so of our lives and tell you how we came to have our first MFM, a wildly successful and sexy evening out where we found that reality can sometimes be just as good as fantasy. By unpredictable means, Jay goes alone to a house party hosted by the PLAYGRND crew in the DC area and has a note from home allowing him to get a blowjob. We discuss that, the aftermath and more. Kay's corner answers the questions, "How do I bring up the lifestyle without making my partner feel inadequate" and "How do I prepare my lady bits for the sun and fun in Desire"?
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Episode 27 - Holiday Spice
We begin with our Halloween night out and briefly discuss seeing our local friends before heading back to a hotel room for a night of sex with our friends Nick and Cleo, better known as "The Italian Couple".
We also discuss having great nights out with lifestyle friends sans sex, just enjoying the company of wonderful people when we attend a concert and go to a White Elephant party with LS folks.
We catch you up on our single guy situation and discuss some feelings that arise surrounding that topic.
Finally, Kay leaves you with a special holiday edition of "Kay's Corner" in which she tells an erotic story from back in her college days
Mentioned in this podcast.
Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo
Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv
Episode 23 - Playtime Passions May Vary
Flirting with another person in front of your spouse can be challenging for some people and comes easily to others. Jay & Kay discuss some of the issues involved with expressing desire towards another while simultaneously reassuring your partner that different doesn't equal better.
We then discuss a second date in which one of us had a stronger physical connection in bed with a couple during a full swap and how we could try to improve our communication in real time for future encounters.
We transition to Kay's corner where we discuss three questions from listeners before discussing Kay's first solo appearance at a house party and Jay's reaction to it.
Mentioned in this podcast:
Clit-sucking vibrator - Melrose Electric Suck Massager
Episode 20 - HUMP! fest and Irish BJs
We're back and we discuss our experience with tiptoeing into the single male waters, from encountering a married male to a dom. We tell you about the great podcast we recorded last month and an eye-opening night out to view homemade porn at Dan Savage's HUMP! fest. We raise the veil for a peek into our vanilla life and tell you about our recent vacation to Ireland and how to turn a regular castle tour into a dungeon blowjob. Finally, we are saddened to share the news of Mr. And Mrs. Jones at We Gotta Thing who were recently outed and ask you to reach out in support of them.
Mentioned in this podcast:
Mr. & Mrs. Jones - We Gotta Thing
Dan Savage - Hump! film festival
Blarney Castle, Ireland
Episode 19 - Pajamas and DP Lesbians
We were invited to a onesie-themed pajama party where we were going to play board games/card games and maybe watch some Netflix and chill but we brought a game of our own that somehow led to a wild and unpredictable Saturday night where "chill" turned into DP sex with a lesbian couple. We also have the first in our series of listener "car ride home" stories at the end of the podcast and linked here below.
A couple from Miami shares their car ride home story here. She was so wet...
Mentioned in this podcast:
Line1_n_Line2 @Twitter
Episode 18 - Cleo's Sexy Santa Sicilian Celebration
We veer from our usual podcast format and have our Italian friends over for a vanilla hangout night and discuss the hotel party that we had for Cleo's birthday which occurred just before Christmas. There was a Christmas theme and hot little elves, legs wrapped in candy cane stockings and sexy Santa's were omnipresent. We also discuss private Facebook groups and our introduction to them through Nick and Cleo.
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Episode 17 - They Gotta House Party
In this episode we attend a sexy house party hosted by our friends Mr. and Mrs. Jones. Kay is limited by health issues but still shows up to have fun. We enjoy spending time with old friends and meet some new ones. We answer a couple listener emails and request that you send us your "car ride home" stories for an upcoming podcast.
Mentioned in this podcast:
We Gotta Thing podcast with Mr. and Mrs. Jones
Swinger Diaries podcast with Penn and Paige
The Curious Couple podcast with T&A
Episode 16 - Italian Night at the House Party
After months of messaging and trying to line up dates, we were finally able to meet this fun Italian couple at a nearby house party. We describe the layout of the house, Kay rides her first sybian and we have a discussion about risking rejection in order to put yourself out there when it comes time to move to the playroom.
Mentioned in this episode;
Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo
Episode 15 - Kay's 40th Birthday Party
Nearly five months in the making, Kay has a surprise 40th birthday and one year swing-a-versary celebration with some great sexy friends that we have made during our journey. We have a special guest appearance from the folks that got us started in the lifestyle and everything comes together for a wonderful, fun, intimate evening.
Mentioned in this podcast:
Swinger Diaries with Penn and Paige
We Gotta Thing with Mr. and Mrs. Jones
Sax Restaurant in Washington DC
