Episode 15 - Kay's 40th Birthday Party

Nearly five months in the making, Kay has a surprise 40th birthday and one year swing-a-versary celebration with some great sexy friends that we have made during our journey.  We have a special guest appearance from the folks that got us started in the lifestyle and everything comes together for a wonderful, fun, intimate evening. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinger Diaries with Penn and Paige

We Gotta Thing with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

Sax Restaurant in Washington DC

Episode 14 - The Halloween Party

We attend our first lifestyle Halloween party and had an amazing time with 15 other couples.  The hosts created a very sexy atmosphere and everyone was in costume (well, until they were naked).  Things get hot quickly and there is sex everywhere you look.  Kay gets her first DVP and we discuss a surprise visit from that notorious emotion, jealousy. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

The Game of Lifestyle

Episode 13 - Erection Problems - Co-podcast with We Gotta Thing

Over the last few months, we've had the pleasure of becoming friends with Mr. and Mrs. Jones, hosts of the very popular lifestyle podcast "We Gotta Thing".  The last time we hung out, there was an embarrassing issue that we wanted to talk about.  In the heat of the moment I (Jay) was unable to maintain an erection.  Obviously this troubled me and I was ashamed not only in the moment, but for days afterward when I would think back to that night.  Struggling with my emotions, I discussed it with Kay and finally we reached out to the Jones' and decided to co-podcast on the issue so we could discuss not only my feelings, but how it affected all involved.

Mentioned in this podcast:

"We Gotta Thing" with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

"Massachusetts Male Aging Study" Am. J. Epidemiol. (2000) 152 (6): 533-541.

"Things that can deflate your erection" WebMD

Episode 12 - Hotel for Eight

We accept a last-minute invitation for drinks and more on a weekend night and end up sharing a hotel room with three other couples.  A sexy atmosphere leads to touching, kissing and finally to some hot moments for all involved. 

Kay calls me out for withholding some information and we discuss why it was wrong, how it made her feel and how we moved on. 

Finally, we took a tip from another podcast (Swinging DownUnder) and started "Freaky Fridays" a couple times each month where we explore each other and experiment with new things in the bedroom.

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Swinging DownUnder with C & D

Episode 11 - The Beach House

We discuss our struggle with the idea of bringing our kids along to a beach house when we were invited by some lifestyle friends.  We meet a new couple who are happy to answer our questions about polyamory.  Finally, we have a guest podcast session where we invite our friends to discuss their sexy encounter with us from their point of view. 

Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions!

A few months after we entered the lifestyle we came out to our good friend Sophia and even let her know that we had started a podcast.  You may recognize her as the intro/extro voice to our podcast.  She was curious about what it meant to be a swinger and wrote some questions to surprise us with on our podcast.

Sophia has been our good friend for years.  We share many details of our lives, some intimate, and it was natural to let her know that we had joined the lifestyle, although we were still nervous to tell her initially.  She asks questions about swinging and then talks about her own relationship.

Mentioned in this podcast: The Average Swingers with Jay & Angie; Swinger Diaries with Penn & Paige

Episode 9 - Naughty in N'awlins

We attended our first ever lifestyle convention and wow, talk about go big or go home!  Over 1600 swingers converging on New Orleans and centered on Bourbon street ready to party and swing.  We met some of our favorite podcasters as well as some lovely couples but had difficulty connecting with individual couples in order to play.  We talk about how our experience was a mismatch with our expectations and how it affected us. 

Mentioned in this podcast: The Curious Couple, We Gotta Thing, Swinging Downunder, Average Swingers, The Aussie Swingers; Collette

Episode 1 - Introduction - Our first podcast

Well we did it!  Our first podcast is up and we tell a little bit about ourselves, our journey into the lifestyle and how we met our first couple.  We hope you'll enjoy listening and we look forward to our next podcast already. 

Production note - Both Kay and I are getting over an illness which is what delayed our first podcast.  There is still some coughing and throat clearing which I couldn't edit out.  Our apologies, we hope that as we are better, our podcast will get better too!

Preparing to podcast

We have taken the plunge and decided to podcast so we can share our adventures in the lifestyle.  We probably wouldn't be in in the lifestyle at all if it wasn't for the guidance of podcasters like The Curious Couple and The Swinger Diaries.  We are thankful for the guidance that they offered on their shows and loved being an audience member to their adventures. 

That said, despite all the good advice that we had, we basically blundered our way into our first dates and have had some funny and sexy stories to share.  We hope that you'll enjoy them as we take a light-hearted approach to podcasting and enjoying the lifestyle. 

We have created a Twitter account, set up a website and domain and are now preparing to establish our podcast.  We can't wait to get started!