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Since 2015, we have shared our journey with thousands of listeners. We have been fortunate enough to make lasting friendships along the way and thank those lifestylers that have gone before us, helping to pave the way in normalizing consensual non-monogamy.
Our Mission
To promote understanding through dialogue. We aim to engage our listeners and talk through the feelings that arise as we explore the swinging lifestyle together. We hope to make you laugh with our blunders, become aroused with our torrid tales, look inward with pensive introspection and hopefully realize that your relationship can be whatever you choose for it to be within your partnership.
ABOUT US
Welcome! We are Jay & Kay, your typical suburban "Couple Next Door". We've been married for nearly 20 years and together for over 22. We fell in love while in college, had three kids while moving all over the world and although we have always had a wonderfully fulfilling sex life, we began to have fantasy talk about threesomes and moresomes leading us to seek out podcasts that we would listen to while in bed together. These early lifestyle podcasts were few and far between only five years ago, but gave us the information and confidence we needed to take our first steps of exploration together so we decided to see what this swinging lifestyle was all about.
Our podcast follows our adventure from when we first dipped our toes in ethical non-monogamy until now, with real time reflections on our personal journey throughout. If you start from the beginning you will grow with us and see our views change as we grasp a greater understanding of how powerful friendships can become when you let down walls and inhibitions. We've been having the most wonderful time getting to know some amazing people. We made the decision to be as honest as we could about the experiences, which at times involves exposing our mishaps, but we think it's important to confront our mistakes so we can become even better communicators and strengthen our already solid relationship.
If you met us outside the lifestyle, you might never guess that we have this secret, but every now and then, we are lucky enough to meet like-minded friends for some sexy adventures in the swinging lifestyle and we're having an amazing time doing it! Come along with us on our journey and enjoy!
Jay & Kay
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT US
Some of Our favorite moments
Attending Naughty in Nawlin's 2016 and meeting many fellow podcasters.
Our first trip to Desire in February 2018.
Meeting our first fans!
Establishing friendships that have extended far beyond the bedroom.
Learning more about ourselves and gaining the courage to share our wants and desires.
Kay's 40th birthday orgy
Kay's first MFM and single male experience (she say's it's a tie).