Episode 72 - Boston (Featuring Jared & Lexi)

We went home to visit our families at the end of the summer and took time to head to Boston for a sexy weekend getaway with friends. The DC folks came up to hang out and we met new friends from Boston as well as finally closing the circle with a couple that we'd been wanting to meet for some time, Jared and Lexi, who join us on the podcast to recall the great memories from that trip. Another orgy (or two) in the memory bank and new friendships formed on several fronts.

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Episode 53 - Hotwife III - Coffee & Cream

Kay dips her toes in the West Coast single male waters and has mixed experiences.  First, the tedious task of wading through hundreds of online profiles from Tinder and Feeld in order to find the men that excite her.  When she finally goes to meet one, she finds that he has misrepresented himself and worse, tries to lock himself in a public bathroom with her while at a restaurant in our home city.  That ended quickly and she drove to my work where I was working overnight.  We talked through the situation and she looked so beautiful that I just had to take her to a back room and fuck her right there at work.  The story has a happy ending you could say, she met another man who was everything that he claimed to be and after a coffee date, they hit it off and went back to his place.  You'll have to tune in to hear what happens from there, but we're pretty sure you'll enjoy every little detail.  

Kay's Corner leads off tonight and answers a question about when she felt comfortable watching Jay have sex with another woman and like most of our episodes, there's an audio nugget tucked in to the end of the show where Liv, Amy and Kay talk about dry humping vs. grinding.

Episode 51 - Club Privata Birthday Bash

IT’S A DOUBLE EPISODE!

Take your time with this one, it's our longest episode to date and there are built in breaks for this 2.5 hour birthday weekend celebration with special guests Adam & Belle from Swinging Outside the Lines podcast. We have guest audio galore to help us recall this seriously sexy getaway to Portland, Oregon.

Kay and I celebrated our shared birthdays at Club Privata and over 90 people came out to party with us. It was such a sexy crowd and we met so many wonderful people with incredible personal and lifestyle stories. From the planning phases to the Friday night M&G, Saturday morning strip club field trip, daytime cuddles and lifestyle quickies to the dinners and the club itself, no detail is left unexplored.

Like any good party, there's an after party, and this one did not disappoint as we had an eight person orgy that will be forever ingrained into the red light part of our memories.

We answer questions on Kay's corner, thank YOU our Patrons and finish up with some pretty funny bloopers at the end.

For even more details of this fun weekend, be sure to head over to Swinging Outside the Lines (or search for them on your favorite poscast catcher) and listen to their take for exclusive unheard audio not covered on our show.

MENTIONED:

Swinging Outside the Lines

Club Privata

Episode 48 - Crimson Light Night - PlayGRND M&G

Jay and Kay attend a M&G at Crimson in DC, hosted by our friends at PlayGRND parties.  This was going to be our last lifestyle event  before we left Washington DC and we wanted to go big.  Kay lets Jay pick out her stunning cocktail dress and we were immersed in a sea of diverse, sexy people all night long.  But before heading downstairs to turn heads, we had a planned pre-party orgy with sexy robes, blindfolds, handcuffs and some especially adventurous oral play by Kay.  We end the night with Rick and Robin, who is so hot she literally sets off a hotel fire alarm.

Mentioned:

PlayGRND Party

The Suite Life Podcast

Black and Kinky Podcast

Our Unicorn Diaries Podcast

Temptation Resort

Desire Riviera Maya

Episode 46 - Birthday Orgy at the Cabin

In this episode, we gathered with our friends to celebrate Chris' birthday at the lake house. We spent the weekend recording a joint podcast together (Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy), went hiking, played sexy games and the ladies gave Chris a lingerie birthday surprise that he will likely never forget. We played sexy games, made new friends and struggled to shed a couple that just didn't fit our dynamic that weekend.

Kay's corner answer questions about hotwifing and reconnection sex as well as techniques to guard your name or occupation at lifestyle resorts.

The bonus material at the end challenges listeners to Tweet to @drandsexything on Twitter if you can solve their pseudonym question.

Support us on Patreon or leave us a 5-star review everywhere you find our show. To have fun adventures just like this, follow our links to Double Date Nation (code REDLIGHT) or Kasidie (follow our banner link) and explore the lifestyle community.

Mentioned in this podcast:

Spiritual Swingers

Front Porch Swingers

Dr. and Sexy Thing

Swinger Diaries

We Gotta Thing

Podcast-a-Palooza 2

Swinging Downunder

Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy

In this episode, Jay & Kay are joined by their friends Nate, Liv, Amy & Rory with guest audio appearances by Donny and Marie as they try to describe the sexy details of a 10 person orgy, which, as you can imagine, can be very difficult to recall because there are so many individual sexy experiences occurring simultaneously. 

The night evolved from what was supposed to be a private dinner between Donny & Marie and Jay & Kay but grew to include Nate & Liv, Amy & Rory as well as a very sexy single female named Sonja and our now well known artist friend Ryan. 

There is a lot of shared laughter in this episode and we work to try to minimize or explain inside jokes. If you are a veteran listener then you will know these important people in our lives and laugh along with us. If you're a new listener, you will be treated to what lifestyle friendships can and do become, tightly interwoven circles of trust and support. 

Spliced into our conversation are recordings from Donny and Marie, our guests from the Pacific Northwest who came to Washington DC for a vacation of our Nation's Capital. They wanted to see the Cherry Blossom Festival and tour the Smithsonian museums, but no vacation is complete without a 10-person orgy. They graciously share their memories with us, essentially making this two podcasts in one.

As fun as the friendships are and as sexy as the orgy was, there are many great personal details sprinkled throughout. Introspective reflections and thoughtful musings permeate this episode. Those details, shared in the context of our move away from these friends, make Episode 45 my personal favorite and I hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it. -J

Technical note: 

About 45 seconds in to our cabin recording the input wire becomes partially removed creating a less powerful sound. This resolves after a few minutes. 

Mentioned:

Temptation and Desire with the PLAY GRND crew- Feb 2020 - info@playgrnd.events

Dr. and Sexy Thing 

Line 1/Line 2 

Oregon TMS 

Episode 44 - The Artist's Farewell Encore

Kay's favorite single male, "The Artist" returns to DC for one more MFM before we move across the country.  This time we have a pre-play discussion to include our mutual fantasies and decide that he and Kay will play alone initially before I come in to join them. 

We discuss the lead-up, the nerves involved and those sweet moments of torture Jay endured while waiting for over an hour to join in the fun.  (He has a voyeur moment and could hear her moaning from outside the apartment!)

The story turns erotic with talk of anal play, double penetration, cock ring fails, sixty-nine and double cumshot facials. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder Podcast

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Episode 36 - Swingchella and the Anal Queen

We attend a PLAYGRND house party together for the first time and what a blast!  The hosts outdid themselves with a sexy guest list, nuru massages, hot tub, hookah, fire pits, photo booths and play areas.

Later we have a separate date with our friends Chris and Vanessa and she surprises everyone with her desire, and ability, to have DP. 

Kays corner, upcoming events and more!

Mentioned in this episode:

PLAYGRND parties

Swinging Downunder

Spiritual Swingers

Monogamish Marriage

We Gotta Thing

Episode 32 - Culinary Delight

We tell you about a cooking class date we had with a lovely couple  that was complicated by illness yet still managed to be sexy.  We caught up with Mr. & Mrs. Jones from @WeGottaThing and met Adam & Eve from @SpiritualSwing before Jay makes amends for interrupting Kay during a sexy description on the last episode.  Finally we wind up with the tale of a sexy photo shoot before closing with Kay's corner. 

Mentioned:

We Gotta Thing - Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Spiritual Swingers - Adam & Eve

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Scott Davis Photography

Episode 30 - First MFM and PLAYGRND house party

We catch you up on the past month or so of our lives and tell you how we came to have our first MFM, a wildly successful and sexy evening out where we found that reality can sometimes be just as good as fantasy.  By unpredictable means, Jay goes alone to a house party hosted by the PLAYGRND crew in the DC area and has a note from home allowing him to get a blowjob.  We discuss that, the aftermath and more.  Kay's corner answers the questions, "How do I bring up the lifestyle without making my partner feel inadequate" and "How do I prepare my lady bits for the sun and fun in Desire"?

Mentioned in this episode:

PLAYGRND party - Twitter

Rachel Krantz - Twitter

Swinging DownUnder - Podcast

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

The Curious Couple - Podcast

Swinger Diaries - Podcast

HUMP! film festival

Episode 28 - Yoga Sex and The Cabin Getaway

We meet a fun new couple for some (very) flexible four-way fun and then fill you in on an incredible weekend away with some friends at a cabin for a ski weekend in which there was little skiing, but lots of sexiness. We try to make every state’s iconic drink, play games, brave the snow naked to get to the hot-tub and enjoy each other’s company to the fullest. Dancing, flirting, virtual porn, Kay’s corner and more!

Mentioned in this podcast:

Eugene Drinks Every State's Most Iconic Alcohol

Swinger Diaries

Episode 27 - Holiday Spice

We begin with our Halloween night out and briefly discuss seeing our local friends before heading back to a hotel room for a night of sex with our friends Nick and Cleo, better known as "The Italian Couple". 

We also discuss having great nights out with lifestyle friends sans sex, just enjoying the company of wonderful people when we attend a concert and go to a White Elephant party with LS folks. 

We catch you up on our single guy situation and discuss some feelings that arise surrounding that topic.

Finally, Kay leaves you with a special holiday edition of "Kay's Corner" in which she tells an erotic story from back in her college days

Mentioned in this podcast.

Swinging Down Under

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Episode 26 - Hotwife

As part two of our back-to-back separate play episodes, Kay has solo play with a single male!  She gave up on the lifestyle sites and took to Tinder to find a single male of her choosing.  As before, we discuss everything that led up to that moment and beyond and relate it to my solo play that we discussed in Episode 25. 

Incredibly, we also somehow managed to end up in bed with our good VANILLA friends, who happen to be a lesbian couple.  You're going to want to tune it to this episode. 

Episode 24B - Nate & Liv Return to Japan

We continue our hangout with Nate & Liv and as the whiskey settles in, they tell us the story of their most recent trip to Japan.  They discuss some sexy BDSM-style hotel rooms (see the image for Episode 24A) and Nate revisits his old sex dojo for some solo fun!  We talk about exploring solo play and the conversations that occur behind close doors leading up to that point.

Mentioned in this episode:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Episode 24A - Swinging in Japan with Nate & Liv

We have the pleasure of spending an evening with Nate & Liv after their return from a second Japanese vacation.  They share their whiskey collection and tell us their tales of what it's like to be an American breaking into the Japanese swinging scene.  This is a two part series where they tell last years story (a repeat podcast that we failed to capture during the first telling) and then, in part B, the most recent trip. 

Mentioned in this Podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Tokyo Adult Guide

Tokyo Happening Club: Bliss Out

Episode 22 - Average Swingers Next Door

Kay & Jay spend some time in San Antonio, TX and they drive up to Austin to catch up with Jay & Angie from Average Swingers.  The four of us have a night out in Austin on 6th Street and then hit Lake Travis the following day for an amazing event, Butts, Boobs and Boats XII.  We team up for a joint podcast and have some laughs. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Two or More to Tango

Swap Fu

Holli & Michael

We Gotta Thing

Episode 20 - HUMP! fest and Irish BJs

We're back and we discuss our experience with tiptoeing into the single male waters, from encountering a married male to a dom.  We tell you about the great podcast we recorded last month and an eye-opening night out to view homemade porn at Dan Savage's HUMP! fest.  We raise the veil for a peek into our vanilla life and tell you about our recent vacation to Ireland and how to turn a regular castle tour into a dungeon blowjob.  Finally, we are saddened to share the news of Mr. And Mrs. Jones at We Gotta Thing who were recently outed and ask you to reach out in support of them. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Mr. & Mrs. Jones - We Gotta Thing

Dan Savage - Hump! film festival

Blarney Castle, Ireland

moist

Episode 18 - Cleo's Sexy Santa Sicilian Celebration

We veer from our usual podcast format and have our Italian friends over for a vanilla hangout night and discuss the hotel party that we had for Cleo's birthday which occurred just before Christmas.  There was a Christmas theme and hot little elves, legs wrapped in candy cane stockings and sexy Santa's were omnipresent.  We also discuss private Facebook groups and our introduction to them through Nick and Cleo. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 15 - Kay's 40th Birthday Party

Nearly five months in the making, Kay has a surprise 40th birthday and one year swing-a-versary celebration with some great sexy friends that we have made during our journey.  We have a special guest appearance from the folks that got us started in the lifestyle and everything comes together for a wonderful, fun, intimate evening. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinger Diaries with Penn and Paige

We Gotta Thing with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

Sax Restaurant in Washington DC