Episode 46 - Birthday Orgy at the Cabin

In this episode, we gathered with our friends to celebrate Chris' birthday at the lake house. We spent the weekend recording a joint podcast together (Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy), went hiking, played sexy games and the ladies gave Chris a lingerie birthday surprise that he will likely never forget. We played sexy games, made new friends and struggled to shed a couple that just didn't fit our dynamic that weekend.

Kay's corner answer questions about hotwifing and reconnection sex as well as techniques to guard your name or occupation at lifestyle resorts.

The bonus material at the end challenges listeners to Tweet to @drandsexything on Twitter if you can solve their pseudonym question.

Support us on Patreon or leave us a 5-star review everywhere you find our show. To have fun adventures just like this, follow our links to Double Date Nation (code REDLIGHT) or Kasidie (follow our banner link) and explore the lifestyle community.

Mentioned in this podcast:

Spiritual Swingers

Front Porch Swingers

Dr. and Sexy Thing

Swinger Diaries

We Gotta Thing

Podcast-a-Palooza 2

Swinging Downunder

Episode 44 - The Artist's Farewell Encore

Kay's favorite single male, "The Artist" returns to DC for one more MFM before we move across the country.  This time we have a pre-play discussion to include our mutual fantasies and decide that he and Kay will play alone initially before I come in to join them. 

We discuss the lead-up, the nerves involved and those sweet moments of torture Jay endured while waiting for over an hour to join in the fun.  (He has a voyeur moment and could hear her moaning from outside the apartment!)

The story turns erotic with talk of anal play, double penetration, cock ring fails, sixty-nine and double cumshot facials. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder Podcast

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Episode 43 - Dirty Talk in DC

In this episode, we reunite with our good friends Zack & Kelly that we spent a weekend in Nashville with (Ep. 41 - The MFM Artist and The Crush).  We were skeptical that we'd be able to achieve the same level of sexy fun but as it would turn out, there was nothing to worry about in that department! 

Kay and I started the evening on a sour note with an argument en-route to the date.  We'll tell you how we pulled over and hashed it out just in time to salvage what would become a memorable night.

Kay surprises us all with some next level dirty talk in what is the hottest soft swap experience we could imagine. 

We sneak in some audio from our friends and Kay's corner discusses sending nude photos to friends and posting them on Twitter. 

Mentioned in this episode:

Swinging Downunder

Sliquid Lube

Swinging Outside the Lines

Playroom Podcast

Support us on Patreon!

Episode 39 - Separate Country Play

We share the details of a recent trip to Europe for Jay where he met a couple for some hotwife and MFM fun in Austria.  Meanwhile, Kay had a pair of successful single male dates and met one for hotwife play.  We discuss our feelings surrounding separate play and start to explore how we arrived at this place in the lifestyle.  Kay shares her feelings of envy after Jay purchases a lingerie gift for Anna.  

Mentioned:

Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast

Palmers Lingerie

Krampus

Episode 34 - Single Male Fails & Soft Swap Success

At first thought, finding a single male to play with seems like it would be easy to do yet we've encountered some challenges recently and Kay was stood up (twice!) while trying to dip her toes back into the hotwife waters. 

We get voicemails galore as Adam & Eve from Spiritual Swingers unwind post-Desire and C from Swinging Downunder reminisces about our first meeting at NiN two years ago.  Speaking of NiN, Jay & Angie from Average Swingers and C from SDU play a little prank on us using our voicemail for callers. 

We review sex toys from TooTimid.com where you can save 20% off your entire order by using our code "Redlight" at checkout. 

Kay enjoys anal sex, enough said.  Jay discusses the joys of the male double orgasm and we share some details about a sexy date that we had with some friends after our first date was cut short due to illness. 

We finish up with Kay's Corner and tell you what's coming up for us. 

Episode 32 - Culinary Delight

We tell you about a cooking class date we had with a lovely couple  that was complicated by illness yet still managed to be sexy.  We caught up with Mr. & Mrs. Jones from @WeGottaThing and met Adam & Eve from @SpiritualSwing before Jay makes amends for interrupting Kay during a sexy description on the last episode.  Finally we wind up with the tale of a sexy photo shoot before closing with Kay's corner. 

Mentioned:

We Gotta Thing - Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Spiritual Swingers - Adam & Eve

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Scott Davis Photography

Episode 30 - First MFM and PLAYGRND house party

We catch you up on the past month or so of our lives and tell you how we came to have our first MFM, a wildly successful and sexy evening out where we found that reality can sometimes be just as good as fantasy.  By unpredictable means, Jay goes alone to a house party hosted by the PLAYGRND crew in the DC area and has a note from home allowing him to get a blowjob.  We discuss that, the aftermath and more.  Kay's corner answers the questions, "How do I bring up the lifestyle without making my partner feel inadequate" and "How do I prepare my lady bits for the sun and fun in Desire"?

Mentioned in this episode:

PLAYGRND party - Twitter

Rachel Krantz - Twitter

Swinging DownUnder - Podcast

We Gotta Thing - Podcast

The Curious Couple - Podcast

Swinger Diaries - Podcast

HUMP! film festival

Episode 24B - Nate & Liv Return to Japan

We continue our hangout with Nate & Liv and as the whiskey settles in, they tell us the story of their most recent trip to Japan.  They discuss some sexy BDSM-style hotel rooms (see the image for Episode 24A) and Nate revisits his old sex dojo for some solo fun!  We talk about exploring solo play and the conversations that occur behind close doors leading up to that point.

Mentioned in this episode:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Episode 24A - Swinging in Japan with Nate & Liv

We have the pleasure of spending an evening with Nate & Liv after their return from a second Japanese vacation.  They share their whiskey collection and tell us their tales of what it's like to be an American breaking into the Japanese swinging scene.  This is a two part series where they tell last years story (a repeat podcast that we failed to capture during the first telling) and then, in part B, the most recent trip. 

Mentioned in this Podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Tokyo Adult Guide

Tokyo Happening Club: Bliss Out

Episode 22 - Average Swingers Next Door

Kay & Jay spend some time in San Antonio, TX and they drive up to Austin to catch up with Jay & Angie from Average Swingers.  The four of us have a night out in Austin on 6th Street and then hit Lake Travis the following day for an amazing event, Butts, Boobs and Boats XII.  We team up for a joint podcast and have some laughs. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Two or More to Tango

Swap Fu

Holli & Michael

We Gotta Thing

Episode 19 - Pajamas and DP Lesbians

We were invited to a onesie-themed pajama party where we were going to play board games/card games and maybe watch some Netflix and chill but we brought a game of our own that somehow led to a wild and unpredictable Saturday night where "chill" turned into DP sex with a lesbian couple.  We also have the first in our series of listener "car ride home" stories at the end of the podcast and linked here below. 

A couple from Miami shares their car ride home story here.  She was so wet...

Mentioned in this podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 @Twitter

Episode 18 - Cleo's Sexy Santa Sicilian Celebration

We veer from our usual podcast format and have our Italian friends over for a vanilla hangout night and discuss the hotel party that we had for Cleo's birthday which occurred just before Christmas.  There was a Christmas theme and hot little elves, legs wrapped in candy cane stockings and sexy Santa's were omnipresent.  We also discuss private Facebook groups and our introduction to them through Nick and Cleo. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 17 - They Gotta House Party

In this episode we attend a sexy house party hosted by our friends Mr. and Mrs. Jones.  Kay is limited by health issues but still shows up to have fun.  We enjoy spending time with old friends and meet some new ones.  We answer a couple listener emails and request that you send us your "car ride home" stories for an upcoming podcast. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing podcast with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

Swinger Diaries podcast with Penn and Paige

The Curious Couple podcast with T&A

Episode 16 - Italian Night at the House Party

After months of messaging and trying to line up dates, we were finally able to meet this fun Italian couple at a nearby house party.  We describe the layout of the house, Kay rides her first sybian and we have a discussion about risking rejection in order to put yourself out there when it comes time to move to the playroom.

Mentioned in this episode;

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 15 - Kay's 40th Birthday Party

Nearly five months in the making, Kay has a surprise 40th birthday and one year swing-a-versary celebration with some great sexy friends that we have made during our journey.  We have a special guest appearance from the folks that got us started in the lifestyle and everything comes together for a wonderful, fun, intimate evening. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinger Diaries with Penn and Paige

We Gotta Thing with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

Sax Restaurant in Washington DC

Episode 11 - The Beach House

We discuss our struggle with the idea of bringing our kids along to a beach house when we were invited by some lifestyle friends.  We meet a new couple who are happy to answer our questions about polyamory.  Finally, we have a guest podcast session where we invite our friends to discuss their sexy encounter with us from their point of view. 

Episode 6 - #PornoSunday

We meet a couple and have the best time getting to know them...in fact, it was such a good time that Kay had another bucket moment that cut our date short.  They invite us back to try again and we join them for brunch at their home as they introduce us to their sexy tradition of #pornosunday.  Leigh and Mike join us on our podcast to talk about it and mimosas and hot sex leave everyone happy!

Episode 3 - Our First House Party

We were invited to our first house party, a fun birthday celebration for the hostess.  Her gift?  Ten minutes alone in the playroom with every guy at the party.  We talk about the anticipation and of course go into detail about the amazing time we had!