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Want to experience what it’s like meeting other couples in the lifestyle? Curious about swinging? Want something more out of your lifestyle dating site?

Try Double Date nation FREE for 3 months by using our code REDLIGHT and be sure to check out our online profile (That Couple Next Door) while you’re there!

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The Monogamish Marriage

We are a happily married, suburban, professional couple who are exploring consensual non-monogamy. We’d like to share our journey with as many sex-positive people as possible, and along the way maybe understand it a little better ourselves.

All the stories we tell are absolutely true, but the names and some details have been changed to protect the identity of our friends. We’ll post weekly for a year as a record of our adventures. Beyond that, we’ll just post as we have new insights.

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Beyond our Bedroom

Mr. & Mrs. Swanilla are a fun-loving, sexually adventurous couple that are enjoying a sexy secret, Living in the Lifestyle. We are part of the daily grind of kids, careers, coffee, dishes, wine, soccer games, & parent/teacher conferences. So come the weekend, we love to get our kids into bed early, and then run to our bedroom, drink wine and connect on every level. We have been married for over 20 years, and we are incredibly happy, deeply in love and still very hot for each other! We have never considered ourselves vanilla by the traditional meaning, but more like Dirty Vanilla or Sensual Swingers + Dirty Vanilla = 'Swanilla’! We both appreciate how sexy women can be, making sexy connections with couples and that the lifestyle allows us to explore fantasies, create new ones and make sexy friendships along the way. We have always been very erotic and wild and enjoy many things the lifestyle has to offer as it enhances an already great sex life! Be sure to follow our blog to see where our journey takes us! Look for #SexySwanilla for fun & sexy Tweets

Meet the Mavericks

Today is a big day for us. We’ve decided to live more transparently than we have been and open up about our extremely honest relationship. As I’m sure it’s quite apparent to any that know us, we are head over heels in love with one another. We need each other like we need oxygen and the world revolves around one another.

What many of you may not have known is that we also have a relationship that allows the freedom to love others mentally, emotionally, and sexually as well. What does that mean? Well, labels like “open, swinger, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, etc.” all seem to come with preconceived notions as most labels do, so we steer clear of them. It would be impossible to condense all we’ve evolved our relationship to in a single word. If I had to choose one though, I’d call it an HONEST relationship.


Swingers Help is an online resource for all things related to the swinging lifestyle including helpful how to articles, reviews, lifestyle club directory and of course their free 300 page Swingers’ Little Helper ebook. This ebook was written by Dr. Georgia & Will Fuchs,  a married swinging couple sharing their helpful lifestyle tips.