Episode 24A - Swinging in Japan with Nate & Liv

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We have the pleasure of spending an evening with Nate & Liv after their return from a second Japanese vacation.  They share their whiskey collection and tell us their tales of what it's like to be an American breaking into the Japanese swinging scene.  This is a two part series where they tell last years story (a repeat podcast that we failed to capture during the first telling) and then, in part B, the most recent trip. 

Mentioned in this Podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 - Nate & Liv

Tokyo Adult Guide

Tokyo Happening Club: Bliss Out

Episode 23 - Playtime Passions May Vary

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Flirting with another person in front of your spouse can be challenging for some people and comes easily to others.  Jay & Kay discuss some of the issues involved with expressing desire towards another while simultaneously reassuring your partner that different doesn't equal better. 

We then discuss a second date in which one of us had a stronger physical connection in bed with a couple during a full swap and how we could try to improve our communication in real time for future encounters. 

We transition to Kay's corner where we discuss three questions from listeners before discussing Kay's first solo appearance at a house party and Jay's reaction to it. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Clit-sucking vibrator - Melrose Electric Suck Massager

We aren't who you think we are - Blog by We Gotta Thing

Perly's in Richmond

Swinger Diaries

Episode 22 - Average Swingers Next Door

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Kay & Jay spend some time in San Antonio, TX and they drive up to Austin to catch up with Jay & Angie from Average Swingers.  The four of us have a night out in Austin on 6th Street and then hit Lake Travis the following day for an amazing event, Butts, Boobs and Boats XII.  We team up for a joint podcast and have some laughs. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinging Downunder

Two or More to Tango

Swap Fu

Holli & Michael

We Gotta Thing

Episode 21 - Sexy Talk & Transitions

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We discuss upcoming events, a hot date night with our friends Nick & Cleo and respond to listener emails.  We unveil our new Kay's Corner jingle and recommend another sexy lifestyle podcast to listen to.

Mentioned in this podcast (In order of mention).

Average Swingers with Jay & Angie

Boobs, Butts and Boats - Austin, TX 21-22 July

The Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Swinger Diaries with Penn & Paige

Swinging Down Under with C & D

Real Talk Between The Sheets with Jake & Sophia

Episode 20 - HUMP! fest and Irish BJs

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We're back and we discuss our experience with tiptoeing into the single male waters, from encountering a married male to a dom.  We tell you about the great podcast we recorded last month and an eye-opening night out to view homemade porn at Dan Savage's HUMP! fest.  We raise the veil for a peek into our vanilla life and tell you about our recent vacation to Ireland and how to turn a regular castle tour into a dungeon blowjob.  Finally, we are saddened to share the news of Mr. And Mrs. Jones at We Gotta Thing who were recently outed and ask you to reach out in support of them. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Mr. & Mrs. Jones - We Gotta Thing

Dan Savage - Hump! film festival

Blarney Castle, Ireland

moist

Episode 19 - Pajamas and DP Lesbians

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We were invited to a onesie-themed pajama party where we were going to play board games/card games and maybe watch some Netflix and chill but we brought a game of our own that somehow led to a wild and unpredictable Saturday night where "chill" turned into DP sex with a lesbian couple.  We also have the first in our series of listener "car ride home" stories at the end of the podcast and linked here below. 

A couple from Miami shares their car ride home story here.  She was so wet...

Mentioned in this podcast:

Line1_n_Line2 @Twitter

Episode 18 - Cleo's Sexy Santa Sicilian Celebration

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We veer from our usual podcast format and have our Italian friends over for a vanilla hangout night and discuss the hotel party that we had for Cleo's birthday which occurred just before Christmas.  There was a Christmas theme and hot little elves, legs wrapped in candy cane stockings and sexy Santa's were omnipresent.  We also discuss private Facebook groups and our introduction to them through Nick and Cleo. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 17 - They Gotta House Party

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In this episode we attend a sexy house party hosted by our friends Mr. and Mrs. Jones.  Kay is limited by health issues but still shows up to have fun.  We enjoy spending time with old friends and meet some new ones.  We answer a couple listener emails and request that you send us your "car ride home" stories for an upcoming podcast. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing podcast with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

Swinger Diaries podcast with Penn and Paige

The Curious Couple podcast with T&A

Episode 16 - Italian Night at the House Party

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After months of messaging and trying to line up dates, we were finally able to meet this fun Italian couple at a nearby house party.  We describe the layout of the house, Kay rides her first sybian and we have a discussion about risking rejection in order to put yourself out there when it comes time to move to the playroom.

Mentioned in this episode;

Fun Italian Couple - Nick & Cleo

Episode 15 - Kay's 40th Birthday Party

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Nearly five months in the making, Kay has a surprise 40th birthday and one year swing-a-versary celebration with some great sexy friends that we have made during our journey.  We have a special guest appearance from the folks that got us started in the lifestyle and everything comes together for a wonderful, fun, intimate evening. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

Swinger Diaries with Penn and Paige

We Gotta Thing with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

Sax Restaurant in Washington DC

Episode 14 - The Halloween Party

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We attend our first lifestyle Halloween party and had an amazing time with 15 other couples.  The hosts created a very sexy atmosphere and everyone was in costume (well, until they were naked).  Things get hot quickly and there is sex everywhere you look.  Kay gets her first DVP and we discuss a surprise visit from that notorious emotion, jealousy. 

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

The Game of Lifestyle

Episode 13 - Erection Problems - Co-podcast with We Gotta Thing

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Over the last few months, we've had the pleasure of becoming friends with Mr. and Mrs. Jones, hosts of the very popular lifestyle podcast "We Gotta Thing".  The last time we hung out, there was an embarrassing issue that we wanted to talk about.  In the heat of the moment I (Jay) was unable to maintain an erection.  Obviously this troubled me and I was ashamed not only in the moment, but for days afterward when I would think back to that night.  Struggling with my emotions, I discussed it with Kay and finally we reached out to the Jones' and decided to co-podcast on the issue so we could discuss not only my feelings, but how it affected all involved.

Mentioned in this podcast:

"We Gotta Thing" with Mr. and Mrs. Jones

"Massachusetts Male Aging Study" Am. J. Epidemiol. (2000) 152 (6): 533-541.

"Things that can deflate your erection" WebMD

Episode 12 - Hotel for Eight

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We accept a last-minute invitation for drinks and more on a weekend night and end up sharing a hotel room with three other couples.  A sexy atmosphere leads to touching, kissing and finally to some hot moments for all involved. 

Kay calls me out for withholding some information and we discuss why it was wrong, how it made her feel and how we moved on. 

Finally, we took a tip from another podcast (Swinging DownUnder) and started "Freaky Fridays" a couple times each month where we explore each other and experiment with new things in the bedroom.

Mentioned in this podcast:

We Gotta Thing with Mr. & Mrs. Jones

Swinging DownUnder with C & D

Episode 11 - The Beach House

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We discuss our struggle with the idea of bringing our kids along to a beach house when we were invited by some lifestyle friends.  We meet a new couple who are happy to answer our questions about polyamory.  Finally, we have a guest podcast session where we invite our friends to discuss their sexy encounter with us from their point of view. 

Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions!

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A few months after we entered the lifestyle we came out to our good friend Sophia and even let her know that we had started a podcast.  You may recognize her as the intro/extro voice to our podcast.  She was curious about what it meant to be a swinger and wrote some questions to surprise us with on our podcast.

Sophia has been our good friend for years.  We share many details of our lives, some intimate, and it was natural to let her know that we had joined the lifestyle, although we were still nervous to tell her initially.  She asks questions about swinging and then talks about her own relationship.

Mentioned in this podcast: The Average Swingers with Jay & Angie; Swinger Diaries with Penn & Paige

Episode 9 - Naughty in N'awlins

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We attended our first ever lifestyle convention and wow, talk about go big or go home!  Over 1600 swingers converging on New Orleans and centered on Bourbon street ready to party and swing.  We met some of our favorite podcasters as well as some lovely couples but had difficulty connecting with individual couples in order to play.  We talk about how our experience was a mismatch with our expectations and how it affected us. 

Mentioned in this podcast: The Curious Couple, We Gotta Thing, Swinging Downunder, Average Swingers, The Aussie Swingers; Collette

Episode 8 - Cybersex and Our First Time Hosting

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We were hesitant to meet a couple based off of their profile but wow, we're glad we did!  We had a great dinner with a sexy duo followed by some hot video phone sex that night and a few weeks later we hosted them at our house on the night before leaving for Naughty in N'awlins.  We made new friends and had some great sex!

Episode 7 - She Kissed A Girl and She Liked It

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Meet Nate & Liv, a couple that knew we had a podcast who immediately hit it off with us.  We had a great night of dinner, talking, drinks and dive-bar delving.  A week or so later, we were back at their place where they had reversed the red-light treatment on us and we had some very hot sex and took some amazing photos. Little did we know it would be the start of a great friendship.

Episode 6 - #PornoSunday

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We meet a couple and have the best time getting to know them...in fact, it was such a good time that Kay had another bucket moment that cut our date short.  They invite us back to try again and we join them for brunch at their home as they introduce us to their sexy tradition of #pornosunday.  Leigh and Mike join us on our podcast to talk about it and mimosas and hot sex leave everyone happy!

Episode 5 - Separate Rooms and Dates Gone Wrong

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We head out on a couple of dates to meet people and red flags go up everywhere, dating couples can be hard!  We did have success meeting a new couple though and we talk about that sexy encounter where we couldn’t physically see each other for the first time during play. It was arousing and brought up all kinds of new discussions among us.